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Logically, if he knew he never wanted marriage or commitment then he wouldn't date me in first place, knowing that's what I want and not 10 years from now either.
Logically, if he knew he never wanted marriage or commitment then he wouldn't date me in first place, knowing that's what I want and not 10 years from now either.
Lol I have in the past dated women that I have no intention to go any further with despite the way they may feel about it. Why? Cause it was easy for me at the time to make my intent blurry and continue to hook up with them and not have any hard discussions.
Logically, if he knew he never wanted marriage or commitment then he wouldn't date me in first place, knowing that's what I want and not 10 years from now either.
What do you mean? I would think he'd be willing to give some
Sort of general future plan, like "we could start saving via a joint bank account, or get engaged in two years after X and Y, and how about we travel for you to meet
My
Family next summer or fall sometime" instead of just "if this answer isn't good enough for you then leave"
Willing? He already gave you an answer that's very clearcut.
Your expectations otherwise are way out of line and bordering on some full blown fantasy that he'll come around.
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Originally Posted by MD_bls
.... he says "I will marry you eventually when I decide the time is right as long as you stop asking/Pressuring me about it. And I have no approximate timetable to give, and if this isn't good enough for you, then do what you have to do & leave."
He said if it's not good enough, leave. And you're refusing to accept this reality, but you want to pester this kind of man into giving what you want? Gross. Have some self respect.
Ohhhh so I should just stay around for years and never mention a word about the future and assume hell propose when he doesn't even make me a priority on a daily basis, never says he loves me, etc
Logically, if he knew he never wanted marriage or commitment then he wouldn't date me in first place, knowing that's what I want and not 10 years from now either.
Honestly there is not much about this situation or your reasons why you want this guy that are logical.
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