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Old 11-26-2015, 09:39 PM
 
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Ohhhh so I should just stay around for years and never mention a word about the future and assume he'll propose when he doesn't even make me a priority on a daily basis, never says he loves me, etc
you get what you ask for!
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Old 11-26-2015, 09:40 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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I'm beginning to think this is not a real situation, because it's unreal. But I'm thick so it takes me 8 pages to realize this.

Last edited by NewbieHere; 11-26-2015 at 10:12 PM..
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Old 11-26-2015, 09:41 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Ohhhh so I should just stay around for years and never mention a word about the future and assume hell propose when he doesn't even make me a priority on a daily basis, never says he loves me, etc
Yes, yes, and yes.
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Old 11-26-2015, 09:43 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Logically, if he knew he never wanted marriage or commitment then he wouldn't date me in first place, knowing that's what I want and not 10 years from now either.
Do you believe all dates end up in marriage?
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Old 11-26-2015, 09:48 PM
 
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Logically, if he knew he never wanted marriage or commitment then he wouldn't date me in first place, knowing that's what I want and not 10 years from now either.
Don't put it on him. Logically YOU shouldn't be with a man whose intentions is so vastly different from what you want.

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Ohhhh so I should just stay around for years and never mention a word about the future and assume hell propose when he doesn't even make me a priority on a daily basis, never says he loves me, etc
That's what he laid out. If you want him, this is it.
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Old 11-26-2015, 10:13 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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What kind of low life would scam a lady into paying half his rent? You stick with this rodeo clown and you will get what you deserve. Nothing.
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Old 11-26-2015, 10:16 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Ohhhh so I should just stay around for years and never mention a word about the future and assume hell propose when he doesn't even make me a priority on a daily basis, never says he loves me, etc
Absolutely not. What you should do is move on and find someone who does love you and does want to have a future with you, which you will happily plan together.
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Old 11-26-2015, 10:25 PM
 
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Ohhhh so I should just stay around for years and never mention a word about the future and assume hell propose when he doesn't even make me a priority on a daily basis, never says he loves me, etc
Yes. If you want him back, this is exactly what you should do. Otherwise forget about it. He's already dumped you because you won't do this simple thing
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Old 11-26-2015, 11:07 PM
 
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And that's fair? And that's right? You should threaten to dump someone if they bring up the future or marriage? Or want even a timetable (next few years etc) about when it'll happen???
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Old 11-26-2015, 11:21 PM
 
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And that's fair? And that's right? You should threaten to dump someone if they bring up the future or marriage? Or want even a timetable (next few years etc) about when it'll happen???
Whom are you trying to convince? Even you are disgusted by this guy's actions. Time to leave.
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