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Old 09-19-2016, 10:44 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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That's my experience exactly mate

That's what I was referring to when I said I'll know within the first few dates .... Basically using the time spent together and in chat
Exactly!

I have had a couple of girls that have I've had the ''Our babies would look like this'' talk with. Mostly just the first real long term girlfriend I had years ago and the one I'm engaged to now.

There was also a crazy FWB that started talking like that, which made me a little uncomfortable haha.

I think if a woman definitely does not want kids at all, ever, she will make it known very early on.
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Old 09-19-2016, 11:36 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Hang tough brah, you did the right thing. Literally billions more women out there.
Not looking for awhile probably never will again.
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Old 09-20-2016, 03:04 AM
 
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There's a difference between dating and looking specifically for a partner. Dating is all about having fun or enjoying the "drama." Looking for a partner is trying to avoid the drama and find someone who wants to stick around when things aren't so fun.
Agreed. I loathe dating.
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Old 09-20-2016, 05:25 AM
 
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Not looking for awhile probably never will again.
That's exactly what my husband said to me when we started dating. Give it time. Its waaaaaaaay too soon for you.
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Old 09-20-2016, 08:24 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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That's exactly what my husband said to me when we started dating. Give it time. Its waaaaaaaay too soon for you.
Keyword: Your husband I am not him and most likely never will be. To be honest life was so much better when I didn't take a woman's feelings into consideration. That's exactly how I will start over and live my life. No woman in my life to hold me back and try to change me, no bringing them back to my apartment, and I will keep them at arms length. It's all about me from now on.
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Old 09-20-2016, 12:03 PM
 
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Keyword: Your husband I am not him and most likely never will be. To be honest life was so much better when I didn't take a woman's feelings into consideration. That's exactly how I will start over and live my life. No woman in my life to hold me back and try to change me, no bringing them back to my apartment, and I will keep them at arms length. It's all about me from now on.
An authentic woman will accept you and support you if she loves you. It is not the "woman" that is the issue, it is the "holding you back" that is the issue.

Or you can live alone until you die. My uncle did that after his high school sweetheart dumped him. Lived alone, died alone. Literally.

To each his own.
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Old 09-20-2016, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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An authentic woman will accept you and support you if she loves you. It is not the "woman" that is the issue, it is the "holding you back" that is the issue.

Or you can live alone until you die. My uncle did that after his high school sweetheart dumped him. Lived alone, died alone. Literally.

To each his own.
I apologized if I seemed rude or hostile this just sucks right now.
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Old 09-20-2016, 03:39 PM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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I think it would be brought up within the first two dates.
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