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Old 11-11-2017, 06:18 PM
 
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are you a child? Do you really think you can hold on to a man for two years with handj0bs and oral? Seriously? He'll take whatever he can get from you and who knows however many other women out there. What makes you think you're so special he's waiting for you? I don't even know if i'd call what you have an fwb...ask him if he'll marry you and tell us the answer if you're so confident.
because it's not always about sexual activity but i supose according to you and all the desperate men out there it must be then.nothing to do with.compatibility or freinds hip. I guess i must be wasting my.time. I suppose you know.since you must have been around
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Old 11-11-2017, 06:20 PM
 
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are you a child? Do you really think you can hold on to a man for two years with handj0bs and oral? Seriously? He'll take whatever he can get from you and who knows however many other women out there. What makes you think you're so special he's waiting for you? I don't even know if i'd call what you have an fwb...ask him if he'll marry you and tell us the answer if you're so confident.
and don't dare.to call me a child again
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Old 11-11-2017, 06:24 PM
 
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Seriously the more you post, the more mentally unstable you are proving yourself to be. Case closed.
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Old 11-11-2017, 06:24 PM
 
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No, he may just masturbate to them. You seem young, and naive, and not very familiar with men.

Why do YOU think he is following them? Fashion?

Guys will hug on ya, love on ya, and take ya out to dinner. They could still be sleeping with 30 other women, one does not negate the other. You don't seem to get that.

Not saying your guy isn't doing that, not saying he is.

What I am saying is: you find his behavior unacceptable, he doesn't want to change it

YOU need to choose to stay and accept it, or go. That's all there is to it.

Him hugging you doesn't matter, him not wanting to break up doesn't matter, your not understanding how he could behave this doesn't matter......
I suppose. As I was.thinking about all the women he's following on instagram I came out with " you're like that guy who sleeps with any one and everyone"jst to test him. since there was a guy we both know who was funnily.enough the same but it was h's facebook tht was just full of women. he then replied.with "I wish"
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Old 11-11-2017, 06:25 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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and don't dare.to call me a child again
She asked if you were a child, she didn't call you one.

There is a certain degree of immaturity in this whole situation.
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Old 11-11-2017, 06:26 PM
 
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Seriously the more you post, the more mentally unstable you are proving yourself to be. Case closed.
are you feeling alright. mentally unstable are the people on here who don't even know me.and are hating for no reason .Those.are.the mental ones . please.read everything before you assume
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Old 11-11-2017, 06:26 PM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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iv heard stories where men can do that be with a women whilst holding out on sex. and it's not like he gets nothing at all is it
I had a girlfriend who gave me something but not full on sex. She quickly became a **Buddy. She could have been my full-on exclusive girlfriend had she wanted. She eventually got pregnant and married.

And that is something you need to consider. It is often girls who do not want to 'give it away freely' who get pregnant because they are not planning on having sex. Firstly they are not on the pill and secondly, when it does happen, it happens.
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Old 11-11-2017, 06:27 PM
 
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Seriously the more you post, the more mentally unstable you are proving yourself to be. Case closed.
and as fr you takes one to know one
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Old 11-11-2017, 06:29 PM
 
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She asked if you were a child, she didn't call you one.

There is a certain degree of immaturity in this whole situation.
these people just love to bully/belittle/ and patronise behind their computer.screens. pretty pathetic
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Old 11-11-2017, 06:33 PM
 
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I had a girlfriend who gave me something but not full on sex. She quickly became a **Buddy. She could have been my full-on exclusive girlfriend had she wanted. She eventually got pregnant and married.

And that is something you need to consider. It is often girls who do not want to 'give it away freely' who get pregnant because they are not planning on having sex. Firstly they are not on the pill and secondly, when it does happen, it happens.
wow. well touch wood I don't become that. so you're basically saying though that this guy isn't taking me seriously regardless what I say or do unless it goes the whole way
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