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Old 11-09-2017, 08:13 PM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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Just break from him. Stop seeing him. Stop messaging him. Let him carry on with all the women he is following in IG. You would be doing him a favour.
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Old 11-09-2017, 08:16 PM
 
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Just break from him. Stop seeing him. Stop messaging him. Let him carry on with all the women he is following in IG. You would be doing him a favour.
iv done it before and hl complain about it if I do so clearly he doesn't wnna let me go either
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Old 11-09-2017, 08:19 PM
 
Location: Earth
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believe it or not I don't need to try to get attention from guys I just get it anyway. I jst need.to walk down the street and someone will ask me.for my number. its really not that difficult. but I don't want anyone I don't know like he does.Please.don't put me in the same category as him.

I'm not sad. but if what you say is true I will get even one way or another.
Now it's sounding like an ego thing. You're so hot and used to being told so, that if he's with you, he should have no reason to wanna look at any other women aside from you. Now, it's become a game where you wanna get even because he's dared to notice women other than you, especially when they're not even that cute (by your standards).

Both of you need to drop this relationship. Because it seems like nothing but immature games that BOTH of you are playing. You're just playing it differently.

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Old 11-09-2017, 08:22 PM
 
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Bad news. You're dating a heterosexual. That's uncool and not lit. Stay woke, insta family.

#justkidding
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Old 11-09-2017, 08:25 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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believe it or not I don't need to try to get attention from guys I just get it anyway. I jst need.to walk down the street and someone will ask me.for my number. its really not that difficult. but I don't want anyone I don't know like he does.Please.don't put me in the same category as him.

I'm not sad. but if what you say is true I will get even one way or another.
You just proved her point.

You ARE the same as him. You are just playing the same game a different way.

Own it, and you'll have more respect for yourself.
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Old 11-10-2017, 01:38 AM
 
Location: Florida
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How hard is it to understand that when a guy ain't getting any he's going to be at least imagining it although he's pretty low key, most watch porn, not just photos on Instagram.
Oh, wait! He probably is, you just don't know it.
2 years?? Are you waiting for marriage? Are the two of you planning that?
If not, give it up or give it up.
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Old 11-10-2017, 01:49 AM
 
Location: san gabriel valley
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I hate social media. I never understood why a grown ass man would be on Instagram or anything like that. I think it does sometimes ruin relationships. If you are just dating then you can say it bothers you but that doesn't mean he will stop. If it's a relationship then he needs to cut that **** asap. He has a girlfriend he shouldn't be creeping on random chicks on Instagram.
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Old 11-10-2017, 02:09 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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iv done it before and hl complain about it if I do so clearly he doesn't wnna let me go either
The world is filled with guys who will go out of their way to keep a woman involved, even if he is dogging around all over town. It means nothing. The world is also full of guys who have women on the side who are not as good looking as the woman they date or are married to.
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Old 11-10-2017, 02:29 AM
 
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Now it's sounding like an ego thing. You're so hot and used to being told so, that if he's with you, he should have no reason to wanna look at any other women aside from you. Now, it's become a game where you wanna get even because he's dared to notice women other than you, especially when they're not even that cute (by your standards).

Both of you need to drop this relationship. Because it seems like nothing but immature games that BOTH of you are playing. You're just playing it differently.
well what he's doing is just plain insulting. I did say I want to get even but truth be told I don't have the time for that anyway.

I just want him to admit it or tell me if he's not feeling it. I tried so many times to do that and he always seems to panic when I do and tell me to calm down. I lpretty much said if you're not in this then let me.go please. He just keeps saying its all in my head im this and that but he will never say it out loud and allow me to go my own way.

and as I said when I did he wil alwyas end up messaging me and ask me.where I've been and why do I have to be so busy and give him no time etc. but that was obviously when I stopped contact with hin wth out him knowing
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Old 11-10-2017, 02:33 AM
 
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The world is filled with guys who will go out of their way to keep a woman involved, even if he is dogging around all over town. It means nothing. The world is also full of guys who have women on the side who are not as good looking as the woman they date or are married to.
these guys are losers then
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