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Most guys are small in terms of how porn portrays penises. The average porn size is like 8 inches, average size in real life.. much smaller than that. I study the stats of everything so I have most certainly have looked into penith sizes
A lot of women would rather have girth more than length if they had to choose between one or the other.
My post wasn't a commentary on the penilly challenged, just stating a personal preference.
I won't venture a guess as to what "a lot" of women prefer..... just what I prefer. I am not so obsessed with penis size that I've actually looked at any kind of " study " as a basis of my opinion. I've done my research.... in the field.
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You salty sea dog, you... lol I'm sorry, I just read this and imagined you saying it as like a really rough pirate wench and it cracked me up. "when the sea gets rrough! arr..."
I feel like if I go into any more detail about why different sizes of manjunk are good for different reasons, I'm gonna fall off the "not remotely PG13" cliff and get red-penned, so... I'm just saying that one reason my present sex life is better than it's ever been, is that all that stuff most people think of as just "foreplay" is not just foreplay for us. We can and often do step outside of the parameters of "You do this, you do that, and when he's finished, you're done and go to sleep." He pushes my physical abilities to withstand intense stimulation to their limits, and he is creative. Really, REALLY creative.
And if lesbians can and do have satisfying sex lives, there's no reason a man with equipment of any size at all cannot please a woman, if he's willing and open-minded enough to put a smidge of effort into it.
Yeah, I don't want to get in trouble either. it's not so much a " deal " breaker as it is a preference.
My response to this from female friends (and once a girlfriend) was always, "Oh, honey. Is it really fair to blame the dress?" and when they look at me I'm grinning. Also prepared to duck, in case they throw something at me.
I just wish men would relax about the whole size thing...there are so many wonderful things most guys don't bother to learn about pleasing women, because they are counting on the D to do it. I'd happily take a skilled, patient, and attentive lover with a tiny one over a selfish and unskilled guy with a magnum-sized monstrosity, who thinks his wang is the answer to women's prayers...any day of any week. Guys need to get over this. The arts of the bedchamber do not revolve around your D, my dudes.
All the same, there's never any call to say mean things about somebody's parts.
Well said, and all true. I dated a beautiful woman for quite a while. When we got our clothes off, and I was searching, and not finding her breasts, I realized she had been wearing a very padded bra. Was I disappointed? Yes. Did I say anything about it, ever? Hell No. She was a nice girl, and very attractive. Nobody is perfect!
Well said, and all true. I dated a beautiful woman for quite a while. When we got our clothes off, and I was searching, and not finding her breasts, I realized she had been wearing a very padded bra. Was I disappointed? Yes. Did I say anything about it, ever? Hell No. She was a nice girl, and very attractive. Nobody is perfect!
No, I won't let you tie me up.
I had a couple of women that had a set of Hersey's kisses. Not a single word from my mouth
I admit, it looked a bit boyish and had to confirm she was genuinely a woman through and through But once confirmed, it was GAME ON! Lol
My post wasn't a commentary on the penilly challenged, just stating a personal preference.
I won't venture a guess as to what "a lot" of women prefer..... just what I prefer. I am not so obsessed with penis size that I've actually looked at any kind of " study " as a basis of my opinion. I've done my research.... in the field.
There's still an average and a median despite how big you like them lol. I was just saying porn penithes aren't an accurate representation of the male population. Of course you aren't obsessed with them, you don't have one lol.
Well said, and all true. I dated a beautiful woman for quite a while. When we got our clothes off, and I was searching, and not finding her breasts, I realized she had been wearing a very padded bra. Was I disappointed? Yes. Did I say anything about it, ever? Hell No. She was a nice girl, and very attractive. Nobody is perfect!
No, I won't let you tie me up.
Well, I'm typically the tie-ee, not the tie-er, so...been thinking about learning, though. I just don't have time at this point in life. Japanese rope technique is no joke, and I'm busy.
Sadly, I think most women and many men, have body image issues. It took a long time (and immersion into um, what I'm into now, where more acceptance is the norm) to see my own beauty. I'm one of those unfortunate souls whose bosoms decreased in size after having and nursing kids. Sometimes I wear shaped bras just to fill out clothing properly. Not bras that make me look much larger than I am, just ones that hold a nice rounded shape properly. I thought about implants at one point, but it's really so out of character for me, and the money better spent on practically anything. So. It actually helps a great deal that my boyfriend not only says that he isn't overly impressed or into large chested women, he decorates extensively with nudes and erotic art (like not "centerfold" stuff, but paintings, sculpture...art) and those women are not unrealistically proportioned. It was reassuring. Too easy to get into one's head that if one's body parts are not just so, then one won't be loved or appreciated by those of the opposite sex.
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really? a tiny one? no way.....!
Yes. Because I have been with women and enjoyed myself, and because in times where my older man's anatomy has not always cooperated with his wishes in the act, he is more than skilled enough to rock my world without even taking off his pants if he so chooses. But I cannot say that for 99% of the men I've been with. Which is why I say that guys should do some learnin'. And women should help do some teachin'. Everyone would benefit.
Got no problem with some women liking 'em big...some men like things to be shaped a certain way, it's all good...but I'm experienced enough to know that it's possible to enjoy making love regardless, and the worst I ever had wasn't a size problem, it was an attitude problem. Best I ever had, average in size, magical in skills. That's what my "field research" has taught me.
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it's not so much a " deal " breaker as it is a preference.
But once confirmed, it was GAME ON! Lol