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Unfortunately kegels only tighten the opening but not the actual cavity, according to Dr. Oz...so the OP and her ex fb would still be disappointed. Womp womp
Um, yeah, he's Dr. Oz and all, and I'm aware of Kegels, but I'm sitting here right now and if I just basically perform a "Kegel," I can feel it halfway up my back. lol! Just kidding. But just give me a break. Of course it's not just the opening. Are you a woman, by the way?
"Just the opening" would be some serious muscle control. Can't see that woman being disappointed with any man after that. lol
Um, yeah, he's Dr. Oz and all, and I'm aware of Kegels, but I'm sitting here right now and if I just basically perform a "Kegel," I can feel it halfway up my back. lol! Just kidding. But just give me a break. Of course it's not just the opening. Are you a woman, by the way?
"Just the opening" would be some serious muscle control. Can't see that woman being disappointed with any man after that. lol
Yeah there is some surprising misinformation happening in this thread. Lolol
So it was as I expected. She let him know his penis isn't as grand as he thinks it is. Fellas, don't go bragging about the size of your c*ck if you aren't prepared to hear it's not is big as you think.
I mean, if dude was talking about how big it was and the OP saw that it really wasn't big, what was she supposed to do, lie? He got what he deserved. If I was in her position and a guy with a small d*ck was trying to convince me it was big when I can clearly see with my own eyes that it's not, I would've been honest with him too. It's not an insult, it's just facts!
This reminds me of a woman I used to work with. She was telling us how she was breaking up with the man she had been seeing because all he ever wanted her to do was watch him pleasure himself while she told him how big his member was. She said, complete with southern accent, "And besides, I'm a Christian, and I'm gettin' tahrd of lyin."
Um, yeah, he's Dr. Oz and all, and I'm aware of Kegels, but I'm sitting here right now and if I just basically perform a "Kegel," I can feel it halfway up my back. lol! Just kidding. But just give me a break. Of course it's not just the opening. Are you a woman, by the way?
"Just the opening" would be some serious muscle control. Can't see that woman being disappointed with any man after that. lol
Meh...nah, Im sure they had it right...but believe what you want to believe...Im just the messenger, so it doesnt matter to me either way...I guess you can take it up with doctor Oz and the gyno he had on his show if you disagree..lol
So basically you had what you thought was a workable FB arrangement going on, he decided he was done with it and ghosted you, and you responded to this turn of events by saying these things, and I can only infer that the spirit behind them was, "fine, you jerk, you're not really that good anyways."
See, I was trying to suss out the intent behind all of this. It hasn't got a blessed thing to do with the size of his willy. You're exactly as childish and spiteful as a boy who gets blown off by a woman he's trying to hook up with, and says "I don't want you anyways, you're fat and ugly!" Might as well stick out your tongue and say, "So nyeh!! Poopie-head!" because this is some schoolyard nonsense right here.
I mean let's get right into the reality of your feelings here, OP. You were enjoying your hookup arrangement and he decided he'd had enough and was ready to move on, and you got upset. I get it. Been there, done that. And lest we think otherwise, the same happens to men sometimes too, where they think they've found someone special and have a good thing going, but she's just not that into him and fades, flakes, or ghosts. It sucks when that happens. But it's part of life, the dating universe, and everything, and you handled it badly. As someone who has also handled such situations with less than perfect grace (if not quite so crudely as this) I would say...try and learn from it if you can.
For one thing, I've learned that men don't seem to like carrying on casual sex relations with women for a very long period of time. The very definition of the whole thing is that no one is supposed to catch feels, but often enough if you keep it up and both are enjoying it, at least one of you will. The first glimmer of that from either party is usually enough to send somebody running for the hills, and the other one standing there wondering, "wtf?" I've had some really fun flings before...but they just don't seem to be ultimately sustainable most of the time. It is a rare scenario for people to keep the appropriate level of attachment-but-distance, to make them work. So if you're going to play on this field, you have to be capable of dealing with the reality that sometimes...a dude is gonna ghost or flake out on ya. And he might not always give you clear reasons for it. It's just part of this game.
What women forget is that not all vaginas come in the same shape, size, or level of attractiveness. Calling a guy small is a no no unless you been married for awhile or something. Tell him he is good enough or say "I don't like really big ones"...it gets the point across without being too mean. We talk about giant clams or mc blt looking "layered" clams amongst me and the boys.
I mean let's get right into the reality of your feelings here, OP. You were enjoying your hookup arrangement and he decided he'd had enough and was ready to move on, and you got upset. I get it. Been there, done that. And lest we think otherwise, the same happens to men sometimes too, where they think they've found someone special and have a good thing going, but she's just not that into him and fades, flakes, or ghosts. It sucks when that happens. But it's part of life, the dating universe, and everything, and you handled it badly. As someone who has also handled such situations with less than perfect grace (if not quite so crudely as this) I would say...try and learn from it if you can.
For one thing, I've learned that men don't seem to like carrying on casual sex relations with women for a very long period of time. The very definition of the whole thing is that no one is supposed to catch feels, but often enough if you keep it up and both are enjoying it, at least one of you will. The first glimmer of that from either party is usually enough to send somebody running for the hills, and the other one standing there wondering, "wtf?" I've had some really fun flings before...but they just don't seem to be ultimately sustainable most of the time. It is a rare scenario for people to keep the appropriate level of attachment-but-distance, to make them work. So if you're going to play on this field, you have to be capable of dealing with the reality that sometimes...a dude is gonna ghost or flake out on ya. And he might not always give you clear reasons for it. It's just part of this game.
Very much appreciate your perspective on this, thank you
So this guy is offended & broke contact after I commented on his lack of size "Down there"
There was a level of conflict at one point that compelled me to insinuate his lack of size down there.
Another time I clarified to him "it is not small but not big either"
He took offense; is he not over-reacting? (He's younger than me, in his 20s)
Hmmmm. How would you react if he said you were fat? Or that you dress like a slob? Or that your hairstyle is ugly?
Same kind of thing.
Good grief. You simply cannot be for real if you are actually asking this question. Either that or you have the personal skills of a turnip.
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