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Old 12-18-2017, 08:11 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Originally Posted by Atlanta_BD View Post
I personally don't know any women who are preoccupied with their breasts in that way. And for me personally, I actually DO have large, natural breasts but I don't intentionally try to show cleavage or "hoist" them up. For the most part I try too keep mine covered. So I can't relate.
You are in the minority. Commendable.

 
Old 12-18-2017, 08:26 PM
 
Location: Sweet Home...CHICAGO
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Originally Posted by RbccL View Post
Right? Women's body part pics are actually requested quite often...do a lot of women ASK for a dic pic? The last time I used that phrase my post got deleted, someone was so offended, and there wasn't an illustration to go along.

Women aren't offensively shoving their boob pics at poor men rolling their eyes.
Not the same.

The op clarified, she said he was talking about how big it was and she said no, not big, not small...but not big --and he quit talking to her.
Not sure why this is continuing to produce such outrage..
So it was as I expected. She let him know his penis isn't as grand as he thinks it is. Fellas, don't go bragging about the size of your c*ck if you aren't prepared to hear it's not is big as you think.

I mean, if dude was talking about how big it was and the OP saw that it really wasn't big, what was she supposed to do, lie? He got what he deserved. If I was in her position and a guy with a small d*ck was trying to convince me it was big when I can clearly see with my own eyes that it's not, I would've been honest with him too. It's not an insult, it's just facts!
 
Old 12-18-2017, 08:45 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So it was as I expected. She let him know his penis isn't as grand as he thinks it is. Fellas, don't go bragging about the size of your c*ck if you aren't prepared to hear it's not is big as you think.

I mean, if dude was talking about how big it was and the OP saw that it really wasn't big, what was she supposed to do, lie? He got what he deserved. If I was in her position and a guy with a small d*ck was trying to convince me it was big when I can clearly see with my own eyes that it's not, I would've been honest with him too. It's not an insult, it's just facts!
Not every question has to be answered directly, and in cases like this it's better to let him draw his own conclusions.

Seriously, what good will it do to knock him down a peg or two unless she was intentionally trying to hurt him???

"As you expected?" The OP has been intentionally vague, so all the rest is speculation.
 
Old 12-18-2017, 08:51 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Like I said above, if it wasn't true it wouldn't have bothered him. Unlike the claim above, guys know where they stand on this topic. Just like a woman with small breasts. If she is a 34C a guy can say anything he wants about them and she will know its BS and it will roll off her like water off a duck. But, if he calls her a pig and she is tipping the scales at 240, she is gonna be really hurt.

Same for a guy. If it wasn't already a problem for him he would laugh in her face and ask her whether her first child's birth weight was 13 pounds. Or why she didn't get her episiotomy fixed.
That isn't the point, though.
 
Old 12-18-2017, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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That is a very rude and insulting thing to say to a guy.It's like insinuating to a woman that she has 'small' breasts.No one likes to have their body parts made fun of in any way.
If you thought that about the person..you should have kept that to yourself.
Sorry, you lost me there. What's wrong with small breasts?

Thinking about the poor guy being offended because his girl tells him it's not as big as he claims. He was the one lying about it. I mean, according to OP he claimed it was a fat 8 and it turned out to be a not so fat 6. So? He's still longer than average!

But then again, if a woman told me mine was too small, I would NOT retaliate by telling her her boobs are too big. I would just remind her that unless she's been faking it all along, there is nothing wrong with it's size. Besides, some women complain about a too long member hurting them, making sex unpleasant.
 
Old 12-18-2017, 09:04 PM
 
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So this guy is offended & broke contact after I commented on his lack of size "Down there"
There was a level of conflict at one point that compelled me to insinuate his lack of size down there.
Another time I clarified to him "it is not small but not big either"
He took offense; is he not over-reacting? (He's younger than me, in his 20s)
It sounds like you took an opportunity to insult him because of an argument. Or, he asked you and you told him he was small.

Care to clarify the context of you making this statement?

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Old 12-18-2017, 09:05 PM
 
Location: Sweet Home...CHICAGO
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Not every question has to be answered directly, and in cases like this it's better to let him draw his own conclusions.

Seriously, what good will it do to knock him down a peg or two unless she was intentionally trying to hurt him???

"As you expected?" The OP has been intentionally vague, so all the rest is speculation.
She told him it's not small but it's not big either. That was actually pretty nice and not mean. He only wanted to hear that it was big when it clearly wasn't. What else what she supposed to say? He talked to her about it! Like I said, you can't be pushing up on a person about the size of your c*ck if you can't handle the truth that it's not as big as you think. Some compliments you don't need to fish for if you know you can't handle a non-favorable answer.

For example, if I asked a guy if he though it was pretty and he didn't outright say that I was ugly but said I wasn't his type, I wouldn't be offended. If I am not his type, I am not his type. Looks are subjective, and I understand while some men may find me attractive, some men won't. However, penis size is not subjective, especially when a man is claiming he has a big one. We all know what a big penis looks like and what an average-sized or small penis looks like (the averge size penis is 5 or 6 inches). Dude lives in a fantasy world about the size of his penis and set himself up for a rude awakening by carrying on about how big is penis really isn't.

Now if she called it small as an insult out of spite, that is mean.
 
Old 12-18-2017, 09:06 PM
 
Location: Sweet Home...CHICAGO
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It sounds like you took an opportunity to insult him because of an argument. Or, he asked you and you told him he was small.

Care to clarify?
This is what I'd like know: Did she really see it was small or was she being mean-spirited?
 
Old 12-18-2017, 09:08 PM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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People, the average size penis is 5.1 inches.

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Erect lengths average from 12 to 16 centimeters (4.7 to 6.3 inches).
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An average penis size of 12.9 cm (5.1 inches) when erect.
 
Old 12-18-2017, 09:21 PM
 
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This is what I'd like know: Did she really see it was small or was she being mean-spirited?
When accused of being mean or a hateful puppy killer or whatever 100 times in less than 24 hours, she replied:
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Originally Posted by f1000 View Post
Previously he had refered to it, as being "big"

I don't think he was that self-aware of its relative size?!

Never outright said "Small". There was insinuation. "Not small but not big either"

Last edited by RbccL; 12-18-2017 at 09:30 PM..
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