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So this guy is offended & broke contact after I commented on his lack of size "Down there" There was a level of conflict at one point that compelled me to insinuate his lack of size down there.
Another time I clarified to him "it is not small but not big either"
He took offense; is he not over-reacting? (He's younger than me, in his 20s)
Well, there ya go. I mean... you were compelled.
I also question the validity of this post. Nobody can be so clueless as the OP is coming off.
Stating the obvious doesn't change the obvious.
My one guy mentioned my physique feature that was on the small side. I agreed with him. No sense in denying it or taking offense. Regarding their self consciousness of that may be the better avenue to keep the peace.
Sometimes it's not what you say but the tone .
I also quickly assumed a troll post, but she's been here for 10 years and has over 1,500 posts, so who knows..
Yep, that's always the first thing I look at, but there are still some long-time posters who are serial trolls. Not saying that this one is, of course.
Yep, that's always the first thing I look at, but there are still some long-time posters who are serial trolls. Not saying that this one is, of course.
Yep, just because she's a long time female poster, doesn't mean she can't be insensitive and clueless.
Agree with the logic though of how would you feel OP if he said your vagina is very large and he may not be able to satisfy you, is that what the "conflict" was?
I think the OP deserves credit for creativity and originality. Also, most of the interpersonal experts I read or hear recommend insulting people's bodies as a means of facilitating communication and strengthening the bonds of intimacy. You go, OP
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Originally Posted by f1000
So this guy is offended & broke contact after I commented on his lack of size "Down there"
There was a level of conflict at one point that compelled me to insinuate his lack of size down there.
Another time I clarified to him "it is not small but not big either"
He took offense; is he not over-reacting? (He's younger than me, in his 20s)
You may as well slapped his mama across the face. That is a major low blow.
so you told your man he is hung like a light switch and you wonder if he is overreacting for cutting it off with you!?! seriously???
how about reverse the role and he says your kitty is HUGE!
What if he would've said that having s*x with you is like throwing a hotdog down a hallway. I don't think you would like to hear that.
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