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So this guy is offended & broke contact after I commented on his lack of size "Down there"
There was a level of conflict at one point that compelled me to insinuate his lack of size down there.
Another time I clarified to him "it is not small but not big either"
He took offense; is he not over-reacting? (He's younger than me, in his 20s)
Why would you be surprised about his reactions?
In my opinion saying something like that to someone you are in a sexual relationship with is enough to make then not want to be in a relationship with you. You have just killed the desire for him to want to have sex with you. I 100% think his reaction is appropriate. If you body shame the person you are intimate with that is pretty much the response you are likely to get.
No not every man, only a man with a fragile ego. I'm average all the way, I'm the poster child for it's not small but not big either, and if a women said what she had said I would not have let her get under my skin so to speak or rattle me... No matter what her tone was, whether if it was mean spirited or just teasing, it would have made no difference because I don't seek validation from a women... If she likes me great, if my penis is the perfect size for her great, if not then don't let the door hit you on the way out hunny.
There is nothing wrong with getting your ego stroked occasionally, everyone needs it, but most men have such fragile egos they need their ego's stroked constantly. Must be exhausting for a lot of women to be honest.
I think you nailed it. I'm amused at all the stunned reactions here, as if you don't *gasp* insult a man! It's only an insult if he takes it that way, when the comment is true. With OP's first post, it sounded bad, but then she clarified and it sounded way less bad and more like he is insecure, thinks he's bigger than he is, and overreacted to her telling him what is probably the truth.
If he is this insecure, it's good for her that he ditched her anyway. It's also funny that some people are saying "good thing he got away from her!"... with OP's clarifications, it's more the opposite haha.
I think you nailed it. I'm amused at all the stunned reactions here, as if you don't *gasp* insult a man! It's only an insult if he takes it that way, when the comment is true. With OP's first post, it sounded bad, but then she clarified and it sounded way less bad and more like he is insecure, thinks he's bigger than he is, and overreacted to her telling him what is probably the truth.
If he is this insecure, it's good for her that he ditched her anyway. It's also funny that some people are saying "good thing he got away from her!"... with OP's clarifications, it's more the opposite haha.
I think some guys say that to their woman as a confidence thing or something I don't really know.
You're not supposed to fire back with a "Wtf are you talking about that thing is smaller than a..." line
It sounds more like he was ditching her and that's why she got upset and 'insulted' him. More like she brought him down to earth. OP said he claimed an 8 and she told him it was more like a 6, which would be about right if he was measuring wrong.
There's still an average and a median despite how big you like them lol. I was just saying porn penithes aren't an accurate representation of the male population. Of course you aren't obsessed with them, you don't have one lol.
I have always been in MY opinion> IT's NOT the SIZE that counts>>> but how it performs.. LOL
I've, in my lifetime dealing with something uncomfortable whether it was too big or too long or just not effect. It doesn't matter in the end ESPECIALLY when one has zero connection nor emotion attachments!! Physical attachments never equates to EMOTIONAL ones!!
Sure wish people would understand the basics.. but it's more than apparent that most only want to perform and have ZERO tolerance of being unsuccessful.
BTW~~ I'm not even talking about rape or forced sexual relations!! Most of those types are already lacking in self-esteem and want to dominate and control.. Not even comparable with casual liaisons!!
IF any liaison caused one to even ask that question will often lead to wanting affirmations of "Self-needed" affirmations... Kind of reminds me of DJT.. but that another thread! Of course.. women also fit into such a category too!!
So it was as I expected. She let him know his penis isn't as grand as he thinks it is. Fellas, don't go bragging about the size of your c*ck if you aren't prepared to hear it's not is big as you think.
I mean, if dude was talking about how big it was and the OP saw that it really wasn't big, what was she supposed to do, lie? He got what he deserved. If I was in her position and a guy with a small d*ck was trying to convince me it was big when I can clearly see with my own eyes that it's not, I would've been honest with him too. It's not an insult, it's just facts!
Just remember that every time a woman asks "if these pants make me look fat?"
You told her yes - she got what she deserved? Right...
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