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Nice! Even I, one of the most unromantic men you'll ever meet, could get onboard with that. It's creative and expressive, without being overly mushy.
Sad but true. It has a lot to do with what's expected from naturally desirable men vs. stable providers men. A date/relationship with the former is its own reward. But the latter must "show how much they care" .
Hmm...maybe I should try that line on my wife next time she's upset about something I did or didn't do.
V day means.....you buy some useless crap and spill your feelings on a jacked up costly card. If you do all this later that night it turns in to the real V DAY....usually a great sex night where more exploratory things are on the table. If the woman rewards the man with a great passionate night then all the buying of crap is worth it.
V day means.....you buy some useless crap and spill your feelings on a jacked up costly card. If you do all this later that night it turns in to the real V DAY....usually a great sex night where more exploratory things are on the table. If the woman rewards the man with a great passionate night then all the buying of crap is worth it.
Yeah...except then you wake up the next day and realize you're in a crappy shallow relationship where sex is viewed as a reward for trinkets.
V day means.....you buy some useless crap and spill your feelings on a jacked up costly card. If you do all this later that night it turns in to the real V DAY....usually a great sex night where more exploratory things are on the table. If the woman rewards the man with a great passionate night then all the buying of crap is worth it.
framing sex as a reward/ punishment tool for wives, is sexist and abusive. it insinuates that women dont like sex, and i find that simply to be completely wrong.
V day means.....you buy some useless crap and spill your feelings on a jacked up costly card. If you do all this later that night it turns in to the real V DAY....usually a great sex night where more exploratory things are on the table. If the woman rewards the man with a great passionate night then all the buying of crap is worth it.
Wow! Makes me glad I have absolutely no interest in sex. Kay Jewelers and Fannie May probably hate my guts, though.
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Welp. I was bad. I told my husband yesterday to buy me that valentine dunkin donut. And voila! He came in just now from work with it, AND coffee with a kiss and couple love you's. Awwwwwwwwww. And he said we would go out tomorrow coz it's the V day. And honestly I didn't even know until he told me yesterday we would go out tomorrow.
Anyway, I can afford to be bad coz he just bought a bowflex M3. So couple times a day I get on there to punish myself for being bad eating sweets. Ugh.
I try to do thoughtful things all the time. Valentine's Day isn't much different from any other day. I suspect many men dislike Valentine's Day because it shines the spotlight on their self-centered behavior the other 364 days in the year.
Yeah...except then you wake up the next day and realize you're in a crappy shallow relationship where sex is viewed as a reward for trinkets.
Exactly.
Guys, if you have to buy sex in this way...well...yeah. You're getting what you pay for.
Want to NOT have to buy sex with a thousand big gifts? Seek a real relationship and don't have it be with someone who will only hang around if you give her gifts.
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Even I, one of the most unromantic men you'll ever meet, could get onboard with that. It's creative and expressive, without being overly mushy.
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