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You are a total mess. That's why he isn't contacting you. Yes, it is inconsiderate not to check in, BUT, you sound very annoying and if I was him I wouldn't contact you at all. You are too much drama and he probably had to get out. A good guy who is in a healthy relationship would probably check in with you regularly. HOWEVER, you are so dramatic, I don't blame him for minimizing contact. I am surprised he hasn't dumped you yet. I am getting mentally exhausted just by reading your dramatic posts.
You want him to have his freedom but he can't do anything. Sooo....??
You are unemployed so this is not a good time for him to leave? ... Because ...?
You don't want to tie him down but you do tie him down...???
Grow up.
Excellent.
Honestly, yeah (as a guy) my first reaction was "yeah, she's being clingy, but I'd probably get a bit upset too, if my SO didn't even give a crap about attempting to contact me at all, even briefly..." and I was at least a bit sympathetic to the OP.
The more I read, the more I see this whole 'thing' is dysfunctional. It isn't just "he hasn't texted me and I'm pissed" - it's far more than that. The OP is a complete mess.
He got back Friday night at midnight. I didn't meet him at the airport, he told me nit to and he travelled back to our flat by himself and met me there. I'd need to put it all in a very long post
She never does until the next problem arises. She is in need of serious counseling. If you look at all of her past posts, you will see the pattern. I hope she gets help ASAP.
She never does until the next problem arises. She is in need of serious counseling. If you look at all of her past posts, you will see the pattern. I hope she gets help ASAP.
I'm getting councilling/treatment on Thursday
I'm having a telephone consultation with a therapist first on thursday and they will consult what treatment/therapy I need and sign me up at a local doctors/hospital to start the trwatment/therapy
I really am getting help
I'm getting councilling/treatment on Thursday
I'm having a telephone consultation with a therapist first on thursday and they will consult what treatment/therapy I need and sign me up at a local doctors/hospital to start the trwatment/therapy
I really am getting help
That’s good news. It’s important to be totally honest with them, in order to get help.
I'm getting councilling/treatment on Thursday
I'm having a telephone consultation with a therapist first on thursday and they will consult what treatment/therapy I need and sign me up at a local doctors/hospital to start the trwatment/therapy
I really am getting help
That's great! Please stick with it! It won't be easy, but it will help you. Please make sure you are completely honest with you therapist, at all times.
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