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Yeah, I figured that she must be about that age. I wonder how old is he. Does she even know that? Or if he has any kids? Or anything about his previous life?
She seems to know nothing about him, and he keeps his life secret and his apartment locked.
We don't even know her living situation.
All she cares about is that she is married! Hopefully she is, although she seems not to remember much about the ceremony nor has copy of the marriage license. How someone can't remember much about such important moment in their life?
They live separate lives in separate places. He "visits" her between his visits to his parents, work and travel. When he has time or feels like. She is not his priority.
He doesn't even call her daily nor is interested to look for an apartment.
It looks like to him this marriage is a needed formality, like I said - maybe for taxes purposes?
No one ever should get married to someone who is a source of shame. I don't know his motives, but they are odd and worrying.
There is one thing when someone gets married without parents approval but adores his spouse, shows her around, lives with her and spends time with her. But here? He doesn't do any of it.
I don't know why he is so afraid to tell his parents about the marriage and why he is so desperate for their approval. Will they disown him? Take out of their will?
I am sure he thought about all that before they got married, but he still decided to proceed. So, he made decision regardless the consequences.
She knew what she is going into too. Nothing changed since he told her that he is ashamed of her.
How could she get married to someone who is ashamed of her??? What did she expect?
She will be a dirty secret in his life, she already is.
This marriage isn't going to last.
Well, he is coming back from his mysterious work travel where he had to work over a New Year's Day. (I am not buying it).
We will see what happens next. Will they look for a place to live together? Will they spend time together?
OP has no health insurance nor has means to pay for the doctor. So she is not on any kind of birth control method...
That is another odd thing. I have known numerous couples who lived in one bedroom apartments when they were newlyweds.
Heck, good friends of my husband, a married couple, lived in the tiniest, tiniest studio apartment that I have ever seen in my life (while they were in law school). I couldn't even imagine one person living there let alone two people. But, they made it work because they were in love.
That is another odd thing. I have known numerous couples who lived in one bedroom apartments when they were newlyweds.
Heck, good friends of my husband, a married couple, lived in the tiniest, tiniest studio apartment that I have ever seen in my life (while they were in law school). I couldn't even imagine one person living there let alone two people. But, they made it work because they were in love.
Yep, me and my husband lived in a 400 sq ft studio for a year before moving to London and into a bedsit. I never had a single complaint.
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Originally Posted by moongirl00
She said she's a college student. Most colleges have clinics for students.
Belle has a pretty good idea of what's going on. It may not involve the psycho ex-gf but it seems pretty obvious that the husband still has other women in his life.
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Originally Posted by belle woods
We talked for three hours and there was some talking in circles but basically he doesn’t want me meeting them because of the same issues there was before about caring too much what they might think. Like he didn’t say it meanly but that’s what I have come up with
Hes not lying about his job or who is he but there’s also other stuff going on and I’m not an idiot. It seems to me he is used to a certain lifestyle but that has to be left in the past since we are married now
No he’s not religious at all. He is an atheist and honestly it bothers me but I also think that you can’t pressure people into having a relationship with God. That’s something personal and I can only pray for him.
I’m done with this whole thing :/ I told him when he gets back we need to find a place and that’s it it I am done for real.
Wealthy guy, can't provide an uber account for his wife. Still makes her take the bus to her minimum wage job every day. Very believable.
She got a better job.
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