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Originally Posted by Bimber
Yesterday she checked out my phone. The 18 years old girl who recently started work with me often writes to me. My fiancée had an argument with me. I moved out to my parents.
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You have one argument with your fiancee, (to whom you recently PROPOSED MARRIAGE), and you run off to mom and dad? Seriously? OK, IF this is true, it demonstrates, that not only are you not ready to be a father (it was kind of a fun, warm-and-fuzzy dream while it lasted though, no?), you're not ready to be married, or even in a committed relationship. This isn't how it works.
And why would someone who only recently started working in your office be texting you a lot? Given that you're
engaged to be married, you should have told her you don't have time for texting, and that, if she has work-related questions, she should ask the office supervisor. You're not her trainer or supervisor (I assume).
Marriage and starting a family (and a career) are about maturity. According to this post, you're lacking in that department. IDK, maybe both of you are. It's hard to say from this distance, through the internet. But it's possible, that this argument saved you from a marriage that wouldn't work out. Or are you hoping to resolve the conflict, and get back with her?
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