Advice for recently single 34F (wives, guys, older, kids)
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Do you want a family? What are your standards? There are SOOOOO many nice guys that would love for a chance to get to know you. Problem is that women generally don't like those kinds of men until they hit 45.
I have a genetic condition I don’t want to pass on. So I’d like a family, but unfortunately it would be better for society if I don’t have biological kids.
I can understand that. When both my kids were born the first thing I asked was where their vital organs were. I have situs inversus. It is caused by PCD which causes a lot of health problems. They are OK, but I think part of the reason they don't want kids is that they are aware that genetic conditions often skip a generation.
You should be able to find someone to be with! If you don't want to have your own kids, you could either be with someone who is same, or with someone who has already had kids and doesn't want more. In other words, I think not wanting your own kids opens some more doors.
Thanks everyone. I’m just accepting the fact that I’m post wall and have nothing to offer men anymore. Don’t see the point in bothering.
Okay, pack up your ovaries and get thee to a nunnery!
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Thanks everyone. I’m just accepting the fact that I’m post wall and have nothing to offer men anymore. Don’t see the point in bothering.
I’ve never heard a woman talk in these terms. Troll?
And men who think like this have things to offer? All the reddit manosphere stuff makes you sorry you cannot have these fine specimens? There isn't a point in bothering because it involves sifting through fool’s gold and who has time nor interest in that. This is as bad as political division.
For what's it's worth I am a 41 yo male looking for a LTR with women my age 35-50. I might date you but you are young for me. Neither you nor the women I am pursuing are past the wall or only worth hooking up with and ghosting.
Exact same for me also. Problem is there aren’t many guys out there my age like me.
For what's it's worth I am a 41 yo male looking for a LTR with women my age 35-50. I might date you but you are young for me. Neither you nor the women I am pursuing are past the wall or only worth hooking up with and ghosting.
You're kidding, right? I know many couples with a 7 yr age span. I know women who are married to men 14 years younger than them and the marriages have lasted more than 30 years. I know a man who was married to a woman 25 years younger than him. They too were married for over 30 years.
7 years is nothing, especially as you move into your late 40's and on up.
40 here and prefer women 30-35 but date mostly 20s because those are who I match with and there’s more single women in their 20s. I think it would be hard to find a lot of quality single men who are 35+ though.
Most women that age are still very attractive in the 'attractive to all men' sense.
But you're getting there.
Personally, I think women who keep themselves in shape look their best in their 30s. My wife certainly did.
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