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putting aside the whole question of this guy being or not being uncomfortable with the women when he first gets together with him....I think it'd be really uncomfortable seeing them at the bar again!
Plus, this question seems sketchy to me..I mean, if it's the same people inthe bar every night, don't you think word would get around that this guy sleeps w/someone different every night? I don't buy the scenario--women would talk and he'd need to move on to anotehr bar.
Ok I haven't read all the post.But word of mouth is good advertisement women talk.I use to do the same,but had alot come back for seconds or thirds.Most were not intrested in a commitment but enjoyed the sex.
Learned this at young age.I was with a woman I had been with,there was two other women there,she is telling them they should give me a try
I have a few friends who go to Bars and are always picking up women.
One friend will pick up a different woman every Friday night. If he goes to a bar and does not pick up a woman that night he will feel like a failure. The funny thing is he sees the same people in the bar every weekend. If he sees someone he had picked up before he will act like they are invisible and he is only interested in someone he has not met before.
I ask him if he is ill at ease being so close physically and emotionally with someone he has never met. We all know how hard it is to talk to people we do not know well. Then it should be so much more difficult having sexual and romantic relations with someone who we do not really know.
Are you ill at ease the first time you try to get sexual or romantic with someone new?
Nope.
You know how people can turn off desire.
Well people can also disconnect with emotion as well.
Love and sex are not automatically connected.
They are two different aspects of life.
People say that sex causes problems.
When its actually the emotional connection or confusion that
comes from it that causes the issues.
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I would say that after several hours of "casual sex", my cumberbun is sore.
