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One instance, had a guy (mortage broker) used to come by my office every morning to shoot the @##$ and drink coffee before work. We really enjoyed each others company. Then he asked me out. As delicately as I could, I explained I had no interest in dating but loved his company.
One day I needed a low income loan to buy my first house. He made it hell and impossible for me to get the loan. I defin. qualified. Hurt ego? What an @## I got the house, @##%$ him.
Once I was riding home on metro. Two guys spoke -- I said hi. I continued to walk away. One said, do you have a minute. I kept walking. Then, one said, man fck that biaytch. They all do that. Listen to their ipod like they can't hear you. I smiled and said to myself, that's why I didn't stop.
In cases like this, women are just as guilty, if not moreso than men. I'm not condoning what those clowns did because obviously they're from the 'hood (only hood guys would use that approach on a woman) Some men can't handle rejection very well as was evident in this scenario. Meh...I wouldn't be phased by it. I bet none of the women on this board are real enough to say they've gotten pissed off/called a man gay when he refused their advances.
As much as I'd like to say that I'd have wiggled my pinky finger at them after their princely behavior, the fact is that some of these guys take rejection VERY personally. There have been countless cases of women who were murdered by men who were rejected by the woman in question. There was even a case in of high school students in this scenario. It may be that such cases are rare, but I wouldn't want to become one of those statistics.
I was driving yesterday and was sitting at a red light when 2 men pull up on the side of me and tried to get my attention. I pretty much ignored them, because i didnt like their approach. They said "hey there, look, over here, hey, hello". They had no sense of conversation. Since i wasnt in the mood to talk to some random guys and they were being immature in my opinion, i ignored them.
Anyway, so when the light went green, and both of our cars drove along, both the men screamed out f**k you Sl*t and sped up.
Now this isnt the first time i have or other girls i know have been called names from a guy just because you didnt want to talk to them.
I ask, Why can a guys attitude change in a second just cause he didnt get his way? Girls are not obligated to speak to every guy that approaches them, so Why do some men feel that it is OK to call girls names just cause the girls dont want to talk to them?
Some "men" get a rise out of making publicly humiliating statements, even if it is fiction. Those guys probably go around doing that to tons of women/girls. As others have said, I wouldn't worry about it - Darwinism is alive and well, with a mouth like theirs it's hard to see how their genes will be allowed to evolve.
In cases like this, women are just as guilty, if not moreso than men. I'm not condoning what those clowns did because obviously they're from the 'hood (only hood guys would use that approach on a woman) Some men can't handle rejection very well as was evident in this scenario. Meh...I wouldn't be phased by it. I bet none of the women on this board are real enough to say they've gotten pissed off/called a man gay when he refused their advances.
I agree and while i dont condone actions like these guys becasue theyre jerks women shouldnt act like Men have no right to be a little hurt by rejection and should just shrug it off when they have no idea how hard it is just to approach a women then hope shes into you or at least rejects you kindly..
Until you put yourself in the line of fire dont say we have no right to be hurt by it..
But i agree that hurting the women just becasue she rejects you is chilidsh and a sign of a dooshbag
I was driving yesterday and was sitting at a red light when 2 men pull up on the side of me and tried to get my attention. I pretty much ignored them, because i didnt like their approach. They said "hey there, look, over here, hey, hello". They had no sense of conversation. Since i wasnt in the mood to talk to some random guys and they were being immature in my opinion, i ignored them.
Anyway, so when the light went green, and both of our cars drove along, both the men screamed out f**k you Sl*t and sped up.
Now this isnt the first time i have or other girls i know have been called names from a guy just because you didnt want to talk to them.
I ask, Why can a guys attitude change in a second just cause he didnt get his way? Girls are not obligated to speak to every guy that approaches them, so Why do some men feel that it is OK to call girls names just cause the girls dont want to talk to them?
To be honest, women can get a little mean too.. I say so because good looking women usually get any guy they want, and they are use to men kissing the ground they walk on, but once in a while, they come across guys who won't kiss their A##, or even sleep with them; so they get mad.
So lets see, this one girl who I met in collage had the nerve to say I lacked "balls" or "gusto" because I would not sleep with her RIGHT AWAY.
I once had a roommate in a large house who was a modal (was in a major magazine) but I never tried to do ANYTHING with her and it got her mad. I swear to god,she would ask me to come sleep with her (as in, lie down and really fall asleep in her bed) but I would never take her up on her offer, so over time, declining her advances she became bitter and we went from friends to not even talking to each other.
And just recently, I declined another woman, I told her that I'm not interested in romance but being friends was still open but she then fires back an angry email that she will cut off all contact with me and she expects me to do the same.
Gouuuad, I say women are WORSE when they don't get want they want!
In cases like this, women are just as guilty, if not moreso than men. I'm not condoning what those clowns did because obviously they're from the 'hood (only hood guys would use that approach on a woman) Some men can't handle rejection very well as was evident in this scenario. Meh...I wouldn't be phased by it. I bet none of the women on this board are real enough to say they've gotten pissed off/called a man gay when he refused their advances.
This is true. They were. But, I've been talked about from different guys. It doesn't matter what/where a man is from. Some men are men. I've had a guy tell me I was gay or a man hater, because I didn't want to go out with him.
In cases like this, women are just as guilty, if not moreso than men.
Will you please share, specifically, how Brenda is guilty in this situation?
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I'm not condoning what those clowns did because obviously they're from the 'hood (only hood guys would use that approach on a woman) Some men can't handle rejection very well as was evident in this scenario. Meh...I wouldn't be phased by it. I bet none of the women on this board are real enough to say they've gotten pissed off/called a man gay when he refused their advances.
I'm sure some have. Maturity isn't dependent on sex. These men were childish. There is no reason to blame the person they were lashing out at regardless of gender.
As much as I'd like to say that I'd have wiggled my pinky finger at them after their princely behavior, the fact is that some of these guys take rejection VERY personally. There have been countless cases of women who were murdered by men who were rejected by the woman in question. There was even a case in of high school students in this scenario. It may be that such cases are rare, but I wouldn't want to become one of those statistics.
Look at Drew Peterson.
It's best anytime you get shouted at to ignore and get away the best you can without escalating the situation.
A few years ago, I had someone scream out an obscenity to me hanging out a car while I was walking along. I gave them both middle fingers and ended up with 4 drunken hoons coming after me on some city streets with quite the evasive chase with them in a car and me on foot trying to get away. Here in the USA I would have just plugged them with my glock, but I was overseas and wasn't going to take on 4 drunks in hand to hand combat.
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