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So I guess there will not be anymore threads about how men don't know how to approach a woman.
I consider myself fairly attractive and not ONCE has a man ever approached me (besides psycho freaks and chewbaccas). I have never had a man of decent looks or better come up to me. Why is that?
I was the one who had to make the move on my husband. He was too shy to come and talk to me. Just think if I would have taken some of the advice on this board........I may still be single today.
Case by case of course. I am merely speaking from what I've seen, felt, heard, said, and concluded.
That's how I met my husband. I just went up an introduced myself to him, obviously he didn't mind or think I was desperate.
See....it does work!
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Originally Posted by sierraAZ
Everything they say here about liking to be approached is total BS!!!
+100000 can't rep ya gotta spread the looooooove but you are spot on girlfriend!
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Originally Posted by Jays1983
I think that's great. You know how many relationships never happen because someone is afraid of looking desperate? Nothing desperate about introducing yourself. If anything it shows confidence.
See, even Jays agrees.
Hey, with Sophialee, Sierra and Jays in agreement.......there is no further need for debate! Court adjourned!
Obviously, if you think I'm attractive enough and want to get to know me, you will call the number. I could care less about the harem of ladies you claim you have to choose from. I'm ME dammit and if you want to know ME then call. Is that honest enough for ya!
Mango expressed he was always in workout mode and around his "boys" at the gym. Since that would not be a good time to strike up a conversation, slipping him her phone number would a) let him know she was interested b) she would find out if he liked her if he called c) if he didn't call then oh well...next.
You may get 99 guys to call you, but I'd be that 1 person that didn't. I don't buy beer based off of the pretty ads in the magazines I get. Why couldn't you have at least stopped and told me ONE thing about yourself? That is like inviting yourself over to MY house for dinner. To me, it's rude. Why can't I just start cold calling numbers for dates, if this is all I have to go off of?
I know you'll disagree, because you are most certainly a "masculinist" , but there is a double standard with that sort of thing.
There is such a huge chunk of guys who are insecure, come off creepy, or over zealous and they have ruined it for the rest of us.
Women can do things that men cannot. Just the way it is.
I looked this word up, and don't know what it means. Is it code for chauninistic pig? I've said many times that I'm behind Women's Liberation movements.
However, I'm just speaking for me, personally. It's not subtle. There is a subtle way of doing things, and then letting me take over. That much is just instinct. I can't even consciously control that.
Plus, we are all over looking the fact that this guy is very aware of his surroundings, and for whatever reason could care less. I'd be he's married. I don't know many guys that take jewelry in with them to work out.
You may get 99 guys to call you, but I'd be that 1 person that didn't. I don't buy beer based off of the pretty ads in the magazines I get. Why couldn't you have at least stopped and told me ONE thing about yourself? That is like inviting yourself over to MY house for dinner. To me, it's rude. Why can't I just start cold calling numbers for dates, if this is all I have to go off of?
First of all, get off of your pedestal! Never once did I say she couldn't talk to him. She said he is always is workout mode around his guy friends. Well, you don't exactly pick that time to start up a conversation about yourself. If you simply give a number...and please, you don't have to take it so literal...I don't want your empty wallet any more than anyone else does. If he stops and talks......wonderful. If not, he has my number to call when it's convenient.
I looked this word up, and don't know what it means. Is it code for chauninistic pig? I've said many times that I'm behind Women's Liberation movements.
No idea, here I thought I was making up a new word.
Play nice ladies and gentleman while I'm at the gym.
And I am 99.9% sure he's not gay. I've run into this problem before - hello hottie! Oh, you're gay. Nothing about this guy even hints that he may be into the boys. Of course, there is no guarantee, but I'm fairly positive he likes the girls.
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BTW, how is the "V" coming? It's almost showtime! 
If he stops and talks......wonderful. If not, he has my number to call when it's convenient.
