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I was kinda like this when I was in my late teens, early 20s, but as I got older I learned to converse with just about anyone, so it all worked out. I never really liked the cold approach though--because that method is really a numbers game, where you can expect X amount to say "yes" and an even larger Y amount to say "no." Success with the women who throw you signals first is much higher...it's like the invitation that has already been put out there, you just have to do enough not to screw it up, plus it's always easier to work with women who are just as attracted to you as you are to them. Cold approaching is really like selling insurance...and NO ONE likes to be sold insurance, but once in a while they can get the sale lol.
I'm not a salesman. I would never take such a job. I can tell you the features and benefits of an item, but I'm more likely to sell you the item if you're already interested in buying it.
Why is it always the man who has to take the initiative? The man is usually the one who has to ask the girl out and initiate every contact when dating. Why don't girls ever ask guy's out? Why don't girls ever initiate contact?
Always? No, if you were a good looking guy with money, the women would be throwing themselves at you.
The only guys who have to take the initiative are the ones women want to turn down. Then, if they are in a bad mood, they have the opportunity to let off a little steam at the same time.
The only guys who have to take the initiative are the ones women want to turn down.
You really believe that? I don't. You are implying that men who take the initiative are usually turned down, or that only loser men will take the initiative.
Based on my experiences, I think you have it backwards.
It doesn't matter how good looking you are or how rich you are. Women never initiate contact with men, period. A woman will never pursue a man ever. This is because women simply are not as intrested in men as men are intrested in women. Men desire women ALOT more than women desire men, thats why it's ALWAYS the man who has to take the initiative.
I disagree with this. The social norm in our society and most societies is the man pursue's the woman. However, what guy hasn't been pursued by girls/women occasionally? heck, some of the most tintillating experiences I ever had were the result of being "pursued", but more often than not, I was pursued by someone I didn't want pursuing me
BTW - my present wife of 27 years pursued me.
It doesn't matter how good looking you are or how rich you are. Women never initiate contact with men, period. A woman will never pursue a man ever. This is because women simply are not as intrested in men as men are intrested in women. Men desire women ALOT more than women desire men, thats why it's ALWAYS the man who has to take the initiative.
Foxy, I admire that indomitable spirit that keeps you coming back and repeating yourself despite getting banned again and again. If only you could apply that to somewhere it really counted, like with women.
Women NEVER pursue men, period. A woman taking the initiative and asking a man out has NEVER happened, ever. Those men who say that they have been asked out by women are lying, it is as simple as that. Women never ask men out, women never call men, women never take any initiatives what so ever with men.
my bad - quick read - missed the sarcasm
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