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Originally Posted by chiluvr1228
The original post was started over 6 years ago and yet we still have women posting about this horrible man they let move in with them. Ladies please stop!! Until he puts a ring on it quit letting your boyfriends or FWB move in with you.
The OP hasn't posted in just about 7 yrs, so no use wasting my time saying my opinion, otherwise, I would.
For others in a similar situation, I didn't read through all this thread's pages, but please make sure you've known him (or whoever the person is) for a good 2 YEARS before even considering having him move in w/ you. And if he lost his job, etc. that's no excuse for you to take him in...that's HIS problem, especially if you still haven't known him long.
If you've known someone about 6 mos & still haven't seen how they get when they get mad, definitely asking them some hypothetical questions to find out what he'd so in certain situations and/or do something once or twice to see how mad he gets. Punching/kicking walls & throwing things is way too extreme for me & would be a red flag. A person should be able to get mad all they want, yet still control their bodily functions from punching/kicking & throwing things.
The OP's guy really sounded like a monster & she would have realized that if she didn't let him move in after knowing him only 4 little mos.
Omg you poor thing he is a ******* no body should be treated like crap or like they don’t matter he disrespects you he gives good guys a bad name good luck with whatever you choose to do
Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Classic case. Look for YouTube Videos. Melanie Tonia Evans is a good one to start with. Praying for you.
This is 7-year-old thread. The OP will never see your post. Oh well.
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