The worst area that YOU been to in Chicago? (Madison: bus, train station)

[quigboto]

Originally Posted by NealIRC

Are we talking about women who do know you, or women who don't know you?

Cuz, I'm not in any circles with female friends.

I'm talking about both.
Women who know me were all at one time women who didn't.
I don't think the ability to socialize with people, male or female, is a particular gift.
The bolded probably doesn't help your situation. Are you saying that none of the dudes you hang out with socialize with women?
I can't even fathom that.

But see, now we are now egregiously off topic.

Edited to add: I don't want this to come across as some humble brag about how awesome I am at talking to women. I just find it easy to be friendly with people when I choose to be in social situations.

[NealIRC]

Originally Posted by quigboto

I'm talking about both.

Oh, approaching women is easy - getting approached by women is much harder.

Originally Posted by quigboto

I don't think the ability to socialize with people, male or female, is a particular gift.

Yea I'm easily a pro at that.

Originally Posted by quigboto

The bolded probably doesn't help your situation. Are you saying that none of the dudes you hang out with socialize with women?
I can't even fathom that.

There's never been times where guys who introduced me to other women. Nor have there been times where women introduced me to other women.

But there have been times where guys have introduced me to other guys.

It happened last month when old school kings from Humboldt Park introduced me to other old school kings from Humboldt Park. He lied and said I was his nephew.

[quigboto]

Originally Posted by NealIRC

Oh, approaching women is easy - getting approached by women is much harder.

No it's not.

Originally Posted by NealIRC

Yea I'm easily a pro at that.

Clearly you're not.

Originally Posted by NealIRC

There's never been times where guys who introduced me to other women. Nor have there been times where women introduced me to other women.
But there have been times where guys have introduced me to other guys.

Then you need to make some new friends.

Originally Posted by NealIRC

It happened last month when old school kings from Humboldt Park introduced me to other old school kings from Humboldt Park. He lied and said I was his nephew.

Oh boy. Never mind.

[NealIRC]

Originally Posted by quigboto

No it's not.

Ohhkay. How do you "get approached" by women then?

Originally Posted by quigboto

Clearly you're not.

Well, see. It depends on if I have anything to talk about. Anything relevant to talk about. Clearly if I have to make up something just for the sake of talking then I agree with you (but this applies to everybody).

Most people in this forum may know me as an expert on what I'm talking about if I specialize/know a lot about. Otherwise, I'm not the type to just babble.

Posts like "I agree with above" or "good post" hardly means anything.

Originally Posted by quigboto

Then you need to make some new friends.

Yea, but it can certainly be hard to make guy friends my age. Most guys that are single are only interested in meeting females and guys who are already married and such and in relationships are less likely to want to associate with me.

[quigboto]

Originally Posted by NealIRC

Ohhkay. How do you "get approached" by women then?

Uh...By being approachable? I'm an average looking, married dude in his late 40's and I still have no problems approaching or being approached. It is an every day thing for me and most of the people I know,
And this is not meant as a personal attack, but...Bad news: Hanging out in sewers and hanging out with gangs will impact your approachability in a very negative way.
I could address some other individual points regarding approachability, but again, we are veering off topic and I don't feel like getting any infractions. Also, honestly, I don't think you are receptive to the advice people have given you in the past.
You do have a pretty static worldview.
Good luck. Seriously.

[NealIRC]

Originally Posted by quigboto

Uh...By being approachable? I'm an average looking, married dude in his late 40's and I still have no problems approaching or being approached. It is an every day thing for me and most of the people I know,
And this is not meant as a personal attack, but...Bad news: Hanging out in sewers and hanging out with gangs will impact your approachability in a very negative way.
I could address some other individual points regarding approachability, but again, we are veering off topic and I don't feel like getting any infractions. Also, honestly, I don't think you are receptive to the advice people have given you in the past.
You do have a pretty static worldview.
Good luck. Seriously.

Yea this doesn't say much on how to get approached by women.

By the way, ever heard of this thing called status? If Puerto Rican women know I'm liked by a lot of old school kings, that's something called status. It's like saying I belong to a circle.

In Humboldt Park park, by Division and California, a lot of school people from both sides hang out. Last week, a former MLD chief greeted me and we were not far from Cadillac Joe. Aren't Puerto Rican women into if you know a lot of their people?

Stuff about sewers and gangs won't mean anything to White women if they see me walking down the street by myself.

[jdiddy]

Clearly, you've got it all figured out. It's just the rest of the world that needs to catch up.

[quigboto]

Originally Posted by NealIRC

Yea this doesn't say much on how to get approached by women.

By the way, ever heard of this thing called status? If Puerto Rican women know I'm liked by a lot of old school kings, that's something called status. It's like saying I belong to a circle.

In Humboldt Park park, by Division and California, a lot of school people from both sides hang out. Last week, a former MLD chief greeted me and we were not far from Cadillac Joe. Aren't Puerto Rican women into if you know a lot of their people?

Stuff about sewers and gangs won't mean anything to White women if they see me walking down the street by myself.

Your replies reveal everything about why you are struggling to understand, and learn nothing. They are also an open invitation to sarcasm, which I am doing my best to refrain from.

Have I heard of status? LOL. Hitching your wagon to gangbangers? Dude, if that's the status you are seeking, I will say again: Good luck. And wear kevlar.

[jonnynonos]

This thread has become one if the most bizarre in CD history.

[MassVt]

Gangbanger envy? Time to close the thread.