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My litmus test as a man is a man that can get away with saying things that a less attractive man cannot say without facing social rebuke or accusations of being a creep. Men and women can deny this all day long, but there is a HUGE gray area where if you are attractive, these actions will be met positively, and if you are not attractive, these actions will be viewed negatively.
I used to make a lot of sexual jokes and innuendos, people would laugh and play along. Someone else decided to do the same thing, and he was met with anger, hostility, and people leaving his table.
Back in high school, someone complained to a coach that it was unfair that I could get away with making mildly suggestive jokes and he could not, and the coach and the girls responded that the way I did it was "tasteful" and the way he did it was "creepy".
I've seen it countless times sitting in the back of a social situation playing poker, observing attractive men getting away with saying things and doing things that not as attractive men could never say or do without being perceived as a creep.
On the other hand, some girls pay me no mind. Usually "girly girls" are the ones who pass me by, or go for the guys w bigger muscles or athletes (nothing wrong with their preference, just saying).
So, how do I know?
I personally have always been attracted to athletic type. Tall, dark and handsome. So, if a guy is not tall, dark, and handsome, physically, he will not be my type. I am only being honest, and if this honesty makes me shallow, so be it.
My girlfriend however is attracted to the geeky type. Her man is short, chubby, but super smart. He also has a cute smile. She called him the hottest man in the world. They always kiss and hug in public. So the physical attraction is definitely there. Different people have different types of physical attraction. Somebody will find you irresistible.
First of all, women are very liberals with their use of the word "cute". I've heard them describe fat guys as cute. It can even be a derogatory term since it's the opposite of manly.
True, but it also depends on how a woman says it.
"Wow, he's cute" means she's interested.
"He's cute" means she's curious.
"Awww, he's cute" is almost condescending.
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They always kiss and hug in public. So the physical attraction is definitely there. Different people have different types of physical attraction. Somebody will find you irresistible.
