Really self-conscious about my breasts. (cut, legs, guys, sticks)

[este914]

I am 24 and am a 32A. I know guys will say "Oh, size doesn't matter", but does it really? I know there are options but they cost a lot of money that I don't have. Then there is the issue if not being able to fill out lots of dresses/tops etc.

[hawaiiancoconut]

32A is about perfect for me, but if you're that insecure about not filling out dresses/tops, there's padded bras.

And believe me, it doesn't matter.

[SwedishViking]

From a purely physical perspective;

If the rest of the body is nice and slender or "petite", then small breasts usually look great, and are more likely to do well against gravity over time...

However if you are a... let's say "plus size" with tiny breasts, it's gonna make proportions a bit less "flattering"...Think of a man with sticks for arms and legs and a huge beer gut...proportions matter if you care about the physical appearance, then again if you can manage to not care, even better for you I suppose.

[old_cold]

When they're small, at least you know they're real.

[usayit]

When my friends (both natural and enhanced) talk about their breasts, the discussions seem to be framed around themselves in relation to confidence; that, in turn, contributes to how/who they attract. As the one guy in the group, its hard to relate. However, as the posts here also show there are guys that find a variety of shapes and sizes attractive as well as those that find other attributes of the person to focus on.

So the quick answer from what I read here.... it depends. My feeling from the original post and from what I've listened to in my circle of friends, is that it is important because you are self-conscious about it.

I personally have found women of all sorts of shapes and sizes with different particular attributes attractive. So I guess for me personally... its not all that important.

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[ellie]

From a woman’s perspective, I believe smaller breasts are an asset. Physically you’re much more comfortable, you can go braless whenever you want to, and you can run and jump without flopping around. As you age, your breasts will grow fuller. If you have children, they will still be adequate for their intended purpose.

There’s more to attracting a man than having gigantic hooters. Would your really want a guy like that anyway?

You can still be sexy and alluring by wearing lower cut tops and pretty necklaces that emphasize your femininity. Count yourself fortunate to have smaller breasts. There are more positives than negatives if you’re not so full up top.

[Calvert Hall '62]

My wife was small and sometimes worried about it.


My only concern was that they remain cancer-free.

[Crashj007]

Originally Posted by reneeh63

"mouthful"

The difference between "surplus" and "excess" ?

[Electrician4you]

Originally Posted by este914

I am 24 and am a 32A. I know guys will say "Oh, size doesn't matter", but does it really? I know there are options but they cost a lot of money that I don't have. Then there is the issue if not being able to fill out lots of dresses/tops etc.

While breast size matters to some guys, for a good portion including me it doesn’t matter. I’m attracted to women for more than the breast size or shape.
Besides do you want a guy to like you for your breasts or for you?

32a is a perfectly fine breast size.

[RbccL]

Originally Posted by este914

I am 24 and am a 32A. I know guys will say "Oh, size doesn't matter", but does it really? I know there are options but they cost a lot of money that I don't have. Then there is the issue if not being able to fill out lots of dresses/tops etc.

I can't picture a lot of "tops and dresses" that you wouldn't be able to fill out if you're wearing the right size, but then again, I don't wear form fitting tshirts and sweaters and dresses for the opposite reason. I don't like to attract a lot of attention.

This is one of those 'the grass is always greener' situations, OP.

Luckily for both of us we can choose skirts, separates, and even find swimming suits that fit. Don't worry about fashion, models are very thin, so you actually have an advantage.

What's attractive to men I know and like, is someone who can accept her body, like it, and know how to move it work on having your own positive image.