Originally Posted by cep66
I've been reading this forum trying to get a sense of things. Posted a thread. Just kind of seeing what folks have to say. It's all very interesting, to say the least.
I have lived all over (lived in 38 states, been to all the rest but 2). My dad was a journeyman wireman before he retired, so we traveled for his work. Mostly lived in small towns. Because of the nature of work, we lived in a lot of small mountain towns, and a lot of towns near reservations and so forth. Add to it that our family has been farmers and horse traders (egads!, I know how all the crazies feel about that!) since about 1801, and you get a rough idea of the background. Mine is the first generation of the family that is starting to change vocation (money is the big factor in this, as we all love horses like it's nobodies business, but we love being able to eat and the confidence of knowing we have a roof over our heads and SOME kind of savings account for emergencies, better).
I guess all that is to say, from my perspective, a lot of the complaints I see about people and so on is nothing new. Small towns everywhere are often insular. I've only lived in a couple where the people of the town were downright welcoming from day one. It takes time - and a lot of it. People need to know you're moving there and plan to be a part of the community, and do things to benefit the community, not just live in your own bubble on your own private island, so to speak. In the town where our family farm is, it's the same thing as it is with CA folks in Montana, except they call 'em "City Folks". Every time I go back for our family reunion I get about an hour rundown on the latest city nutbags that moved in and did something stupid. And, to be frank, they've done some pretty stupid stuff, really (like move downwind from a chicken house THEY built....lol...that's just good entertainment for the locals, really). In that particular town, everyone waves. Everyone knows who everyone is. And they don't like city folks. BUT, that said, they wouldn't leave one stranded, or let one starve, either. They'd help 'em if it came down to it. AND, my uncle reminds me regularly, I'm now a city person. I've been working in them for a few years, so I now fit that category. GREAT! :-) I only get by there because of my family and the fact that I know everyone there.
Here's the paradox, and I know Montanans can appreciate it. You encourage your kids to get a good education. You kill yourself to send them to school to get it. They get the education, but then, more times than not, can't work anywhere in their home state. So they move and get a job to pursue this family dream. Then they become the city people. Nasty little cycle.... It's exactly the same in the south, which is where most of my family is at (some have migrated up this way for jobs, though, in the last 15 years or so, including me).
My situation. I've got a student loan, because my folks couldn't afford for me to go to college. So I bit the bullet and took out loans. I have absolutely zero debt, other than that loan. I can't afford to buy a house or condo where I live anywhere within commuting distance (Seattle). So I'm trying to find somewhere where I can. I prefer those smaller mountain towns and desert towns, really, so that's where I start looking. I had a job interview with a place in Missoula the other day. I thought I was going to fall over when they briefly mentioned the pay range. 10k below the national average, and not even remotely close to an affordable pay if you ever want to own anything within commuting distance of town. Even renting on any salary in the range they mentioned would leave you with, at most, $60 left after just basic bills & rent. When I say basic, I mean basic. Food. Apartment (nothing fancy, either, just a one bedroom roof over the head situation). Utilities. Gas for the car. Car insurance (which, as an aside, I found out is higher than my insurance for living in downtown Seattle!). My initial reaction was - how the hell do employers get away with it? I think they must take advantage of the people who are from there and have family ties and obligations and can't really leave, so they suck it up and take what they can and find a way to scrape by and make ends meet. The idea of that really kind of pisses ME off, and I'm not from there. They point blank said, after mentioning the salary range, that it isn't a livable salary given the housing market. So they know the market is out of control, and they know the wages don't remotely compare. They're a private employer, and have chosen to do nothing to mitigate that. Wow. Then, in the same breath, they said they're having a really tough time finding qualified people to fill jobs, and that's why they got in touch with me so quickly and were hoping to move the interview process along. All I could think was "Well, no SH*T, Sherlock!". People can't LIVE on that. You don't become qualified for jobs overnight, and usually not for free. Even if it IS for free, you don't bust your butt for years on end becoming good at what you do to then be told you're only going to earn entry level wages or less. Nuts.
I think this whole economy, not just Montana, is going to hell in a handbasket. LOL. How's that for facts and stats and such? ha-ha. Can't live where the jobs are, and can't live where the jobs aren't (especially if you're still single trying to do it). Damned if you do, damned if you don't sort of thing.
Blah, blah, blah. Anyway......
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