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He didn't appear to be psycho and thats why I gave him my number..However it changed after we went out and I blew him off due the fact I had to pay for myself on our first date..
well i agree the guy should always pay, i always did. but that seems to be a topic with some others on here. they really don't care who pays. IMO he's a moron for not paying
He didn't appear to be psycho and thats why I gave him my number..However it changed after we went out and I blew him off due the fact I had to pay for myself on our first date..
Why did you pay? In a date is either the man pays or half and half... at least the first date
I always pull my money out to be courteous and 99% of the time, I'm told to put it away and the guy pays..This time, he didn't say anything and I ended up paying..Sorry dude, if you can't pay for me on our first date, goodbye..I have waayyyy too many people in line behind you
I always pull my money out to be courteous and 99% of the time, I'm told to put it away and the guy pays..This time, he didn't say anything and I ended up paying..Sorry dude, if you can't pay for me on our first date, goodbye..I have waayyyy too many people in line behind you
I always pull my money out to be courteous and 99% of the time, I'm told to put it away and the guy pays..This time, he didn't say anything and I ended up paying..Sorry dude, if you can't pay for me on our first date, goodbye..I have waayyyy too many people in line behind you
I do not pull my money on first dates. If he asked me out, he pays.
I do not pull my money on first dates. If he asked me out, he pays.
do you discuss it beforehand? like what if the check comes and he's sitting there staring at it doing division in his head? i know you think he's figuring out the tip but really he's figuring how much your appetizer cost.
do you discuss it beforehand? like what if the check comes and he's sitting there staring at it doing division in his head? i know you think he's figuring out the tip but really he's figuring how much your appetizer cost.
I like how JustJulia explains it--it's a Host and Guest scenario. If a guy asks you to dinner he's offering to host the evening, which includes paying. If he's not willing to pay, then he should say that at the time of asking. It's not unlike having a dinner party at home and then expecting your guests to provide their own food. If it's a potluck, you need to say that up front.
I like how JustJulia explains it--it's a Host and Guest scenario. If a guy asks you to dinner he's offering to host the evening, which includes paying. If he's not willing to pay, then he should say that at the time of asking. It's not unlike having a dinner party at home and then expecting your guests to provide their own food. If it's a potluck, you need to say that up front.
i agree
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