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View Poll Results: Which best describes what you think of, as "the good girl"?
Good as in a kind, gentle, affectionate sweetheart... 28 73.68%
Good in bed... 6 15.79%
Good as in angelic / devoutly religious / straight-edge / prudish... 11 28.95%
Good as in the most marriagable... 11 28.95%
Good as in confident / assertive / outgoing... 6 15.79%
Other...(please specify) 5 13.16%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 38. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 06-27-2011, 12:01 PM
 
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Obedient and Submissive was not given as an option and that is a travesty!
Is that a joke?

I never meant to imply that "good girl" = "submissive" or "obedient"...where not sure where exactly that came from?
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Old 06-27-2011, 12:03 PM
 
Location: colorado
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Which best describes what you think of, as "the good girl"?

ETA: multiple-choice should be possible as well, to make things a lil more interesting...

No replies??

I know I'm good..my boyfriend just told me last nite how good I am..
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Old 06-27-2011, 12:53 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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When I hear "good girl," I think virgin. If I was trying to say someone was kind and a sweetheart - I would call her a "sweet girl." If I was trying to say someone was good in bed - I would simply say she's good in bed. If I was trying to say someone was marriagable - I would just say that she was marriage material or she'd make a good wife. If I was trying to say someone was outgoing, confindent - I'd say she was outgoing.

Personally, I'd rather be called funny, spunky, interesting, sweet, etc. - rather than be called good!
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Old 06-27-2011, 12:57 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Personally, I'd rather be called funny, spunky, interesting, sweet, etc. - rather than be called good!
*in Mae West voice*

When I'm good, I'm very, very good ... and when I'm bad, I'm better.
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Old 06-27-2011, 12:59 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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I liked the multiple-choice option.

Basically, "good" would mean "good for ME" - I'm narcissistic that way.

Details would be good personality, good in bed and a good "heart".
Quoted for truth.
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Old 06-27-2011, 01:03 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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To me it still kind of sounds like "nice," aka boredom itself.
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Old 06-27-2011, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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I know I'm good..my boyfriend just told me last nite how good I am..
GOOD, at what?...
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Old 06-27-2011, 01:05 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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To me it still kind of sounds like "nice," aka boredom itself.
Sometimes I wonder when exactly the terms "good" and "nice" became BAD ...
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Old 06-27-2011, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Sometimes I wonder when exactly the terms "good" and "nice" became BAD ...
They didn't. It's just that in my experience just about everybody described by them has been too proper and boring for my taste.
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Old 06-27-2011, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Sometimes I wonder when exactly the terms "good" and "nice" became BAD ...
I think it's because they have become overused by people who think that being a virgin equals being moral and having premarital sex means you are immoral.
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