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Also, he says he "compartmentalizes his feelings" and he's not sure if he *likes* me or if he's just in *lust*. He said he needs to think about everything. I don't know if that's just a nice way of blowing me off or not, but I guess at this point all I can do is wait until he figures it out. By "wait" I mean give him space. I'm not going to sit around and wait for him to call, I'm going to go out and live my life.
What do you all think?
I think every woman who wastes any of her time on a guy after hearing such a speech has no self-respect.
Last weekend, he had a party at his house and we totally got it on (TWICE! ) after everyone else went to sleep. He was really nervous because he didn't want anyone to know we were getting it on bc I used to date his best friend and he thinks everyone will be mad at him for getting in on with me.
Also, he says he "compartmentalizes his feelings" and he's not sure if he *likes* me or if he's just in *lust*. He said he needs to think about everything. I don't know if that's just a nice way of blowing me off or not, but I guess at this point all I can do is wait until he figures it out. By "wait" I mean give him space. I'm not going to sit around and wait for him to call, I'm going to go out and live my life.
I think every woman who wastes any of her time on a guy after hearing such a speech has no self-respect.
Why? BC he feels like he might be betraying his friendship with his best friend and that makes him feel bad? I have female friends who put their friends boyfriends into the automatic "friend zone" out of respect for their female friends and have a hard time seeing a guy any differently after that.
First, sorry for the crudely titled thread, but that's pretty much the sum of it.
I recently confessed to a guy that I had feelings for him and he said he felt similarly but I just got the feeling his feelings weren't as strong as mine. We ended up hanging out a few days later where I slept over. We cuddled and his manhood was at full attention, but when I went to kiss him, he seemed not that into it. Then, when I sorta tried to touch him "down there", he gently but firmly removed my hand.
WHAT.THE.HELL. ???
anyone have any ideas what this is about? Do you think he just feels sorry for me and isn't that into me hence the cuddling but dispassionate kissing? If he's not into me, why did he have a massive hard-on? We've fooled around in the past w no issues, so I don't get what the deal is now.
Well, when I am cuddling with a gal and her rump is on my bump, I can't help but to "live strong". Doesn't always men I want to get "down and dirty".
Some guys can actually control themselves, and not have sex with you gals but you cannot control the horniness.
It happens everyday at the office. Darn women keep wearing skin tight(fill in the blanks) . I can't control "him". He does his own dance.
Last weekend, he had a party at his house and we totally got it on (TWICE! ) after everyone else went to sleep. He was really nervous because he didn't want anyone to know we were getting it on bc I used to date his best friend and he thinks everyone will be mad at him for getting in on with me.
Also, he says he "compartmentalizes his feelings" and he's not sure if he *likes* me or if he's just in *lust*. He said he needs to think about everything. I don't know if that's just a nice way of blowing me off or not, but I guess at this point all I can do is wait until he figures it out. By "wait" I mean give him space. I'm not going to sit around and wait for him to call, I'm going to go out and live my life.
Can you all tell me WHY you're making such dire judgments and not just tell me the judgment?
Because you are believing anything he tells you. You are a warm piece that he is using when he's horny. I don't think that's what you want, otherwise he wouldn't feed you the garbage he is.
You have to understand, he's been best friends with this guy for over 10+ years. He's also ALWAYS said that any guy who dates another guy's ex OR SISTER is a scumbag. That it's a line never to be crossed and that he would never, ever cross it.
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He's such a drama queen.
What makes you say that? What would be a less dramatic, but truthful answer, if he's being honest about his feelings?
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) after everyone else went to sleep. He was really nervous because he didn't want anyone to know we were getting it on bc I used to date his best friend and he thinks everyone will be mad at him for getting in on with me. 
He does his own dance.
