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S/he who is without sin should cast the first stone. Too many judgmental people around here. Anyway, if this isnt a fabricated tale then my heart goes out to the two women involved in this stupid situation. I know the pool of decent men is damn near empty but that does not justify selling yourself short. The dude is obviously a bastard...I hope you can learn from this experience and start making better life choices. So disgusted that a child came out of this whole thing. But you must make the best of it and realize its now about the child. smh
You are the home wrecker. Dump him. After all, it is almost a sure thing that if he leaves his wife, marries you, that it will not be long before you are the one home alone and he is entertaining some other young thing. File paternaty suit, so that you get your child support. Just cause you made mistakes is no reason to keep on making the same stupid mistakes.
Percentage, I don't understand your post. First you say that nobody should be judgmental, then you label the guy a bastard. Sounds contradictory. FWIW, I agree, he's a creep, but she's no winner either.
i hate to sound old fashioned but why would you want a baby at 19 - you have your whole life ahead of you to have children - even if your not into college what about traveling around the country with friends - the fact that he wanted a child with you but never offered to marry you should have sent a red flag up - i believe he is doing unto you what he does to his wife -im sorry to say no one is a special case and if you think your are you have much to learn - if he was so crazy in love with you dont you think he would get a divorce so he could spend all his time with you - just because your in love with him does not mean he feels the same way about you - he is already reducing his time spent with you - dont mistake taking care of his baby as doing a lot for you - he has a responsiblity to provide for the baby -
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do tell...
Look at the reason they're here to begin with. Still don't think so? 
