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Old 12-06-2011, 12:31 PM
 
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In my point of view, your husband wants you to be everything he is not. He wants to be seen with you as having the perfect woman by his side. He knows he is not perfect, so he expects you to be. You are the image he is projecting for the world to see. But it is a lie, since he is not you. He needs to be seen for who he really is, as much as he might dislike himself. You shouldn't have to be perfect just to please him. No one is perfect.
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Old 12-06-2011, 12:45 PM
 
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I consider myself both goofy and dorky. If a guy can't handle that, then I won't change that aspect of myself to satisfy him.
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Old 12-06-2011, 02:47 PM
 
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I consider myself both goofy and dorky. If a guy can't handle that, then I won't change that aspect of myself to satisfy him.
Oh please, you'll make whatever adjustment is necessary when Mr. Right rolls by and you are all smitten with luvvvvvv
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Old 12-06-2011, 02:58 PM
 
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Oh please, you'll make whatever adjustment is necessary when Mr. Right rolls by and you are all smitten with luvvvvvv
Haha...I don't think so. If that were the case, I'd be married by now.

No way will I stop being goofy and dorky...it's part of who I am.
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Old 12-06-2011, 03:00 PM
 
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Oh please, you'll make whatever adjustment is necessary when Mr. Right rolls by and you are all smitten with luvvvvvv
Ahh, but Mr Right is that man who accepts you as you are and doesn't expect or want you to change
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Old 12-06-2011, 03:04 PM
 
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Ahh, but Mr Right is that man who accepts you as you are and doesn't expect or want you to change
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Old 12-06-2011, 03:23 PM
 
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Ahh, but Mr Right is that man who accepts you as you are and doesn't expect or want you to change

in a perfect world, yeah...
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Old 12-06-2011, 03:23 PM
 
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Ahh, but Mr Right is that man who accepts you as you are and doesn't expect or want you to change
ouch, good point
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Old 12-06-2011, 04:54 PM
 
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in a perfect world, yeah...
There is no perfect world, but this does happen in an all adult one
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Old 12-07-2011, 08:52 AM
 
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Maybe goofy and dorky were cute at first but now are annoying.

Just sayn.
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