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Bad boys are only good for temporary fun though.
How come there are so many elderly females that are single and depressed? I guess it is too late by then eh
Bad boys are only good for temporary fun though.
How come there are so many elderly females that are single and depressed? I guess it is too late by then eh
Ever consider that they're a lone and depressed because women out-live men by 7 years? They probably buried the love of their lives.
there are 2 story lines.
what they say they want and what they actually go after. its a maturity thing. you wana catch them after they sober up from the divorce high and the post divorce boy friend frenzy high. that is when maturity sets in. when they gota pay for stuff with their own money.
might i suggest take cultural enrichment classes of some sort at local adult ed.
dance classes are good too.
you will meet many good stable women in your age group or a few years older, that you will find much more down to earth and capable of appreciating you.
one more piece of advice, do not do not get married. as long as you dont do that, you wont end up like her ex and will get plenty of what he should have gotten but didnt.
Well from my perspective I need to feel something for the girl, a little fire and passion for lack of a better word. If I dont I wont try as hard on the date.
Bad boys are only good for temporary fun though.
How come there are so many elderly females that are single and depressed? I guess it is too late by then eh
Elderly females that are single and depressed? I think old age in itself might be part of the depression, and if married to an old guy that a woman has been with for 30 plus years might even add to that.
If any elderly females that spent at least a couple of decades with bad boys during their youth, I'm sure the memories of their experiences when looked back on would be more than enough to see them through the days of old age.
Really, how can anyone address this without knowing more?
I once knew a guy who asked the same question. He was 46 years old, tall, handsome, and well-groomed. He was educated and had a good job. He said he would go on dates, but the girls never called him back or answered his calls after the first date. So I set him up with a friend and watched from a distance. All the time that he was talking to her, he was standing there with his hand in his pocket, scratching and fondling himself.
I later asked her about it, and she said that he was gross. All she could hear while he was talking to her was his scratching. I concluded that he either had a serious psychological condition or an itchy STD.
Really, how can anyone address this without knowing more?
I once knew a guy who asked the same question. He was 46 years old, tall, handsome, and well-groomed. He was educated and had a good job. He said he would go on dates, but the girls never called him back or answered his calls after the first date. So I set him up with a friend and watched from a distance. All the time that he was talking to her, he was standing there with his hand in his pocket, scratching and fondling himself.
I later asked her about it, and she said that he was gross. All she could hear while he was talking to her was his scratching. I concluded that he either had a serious psychological condition or an itchy STD.
Well I'm not scratching myself during the dates I promise you that. I try to be engaging have eye contact , smile, etc. Nothing creepy.
This isn't maths. It's not "Quality1 + Quality2 + Quality3 = Success". Yes, those qualities make it more likely to happen for many/most people, but attraction is more complex and unpredictable than that.
Well I'm not scratching myself during the dates I promise you that. I try to be engaging have eye contact , smile, etc. Nothing creepy.
Four pages of feedback from others, a bunch of questions asked of you and all that comes back from you are three subsequent posts which are very brief and really offer nothing insightful. If you come across as "engaging" in person as you do on this thread I'm afraid you really might be a bit of a bore.
Do you have female friends or even family members who might be honest enough to give you some hints? It might be time for a makeover in many areas as the status quo doesn't seem to be doing much for you. Good luck!
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