falling for a married man ... (cheats, younger, separate, divorce)

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by princessx069

My point is that it's not my problem or wrong doing if the man WANTS to step out on his wife... that's HIS decision and HIS choice! it may be wrong for HIM to do that since HE is the married one .. i on the other hand am NOT married so I can sleep with whomever I choose to. Not my problem that he's married. If I say no to this man he'll find someone else .. so he's still doing wrong. that's on him not me

Well don't you have it all justified

The entitlement mentality on some of these threads tonight is simply appalling.

I'm truly sorry your parents didn't teach you better than this.

[princessx069]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Yes, and the mods that encourage them

not sure where you're going with this but I just wanted to have a conversation about this situation .. if you don't think it's true or don't want to contribute to the conversation you don't have to .. no one is forcing you!

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by princessx069

I'm responsible enough to know how to protect myself. but if God grants me a child then He grants me a child .. I love children but that's not what I'm planning on. If it happens then so be it, it happens I'll deal with it then.

Oh, that's rich - bring God into this mess.

Twisted thinking, very twisted thinking.

[princessx069]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Well don't you have it all justified

The entitlement mentality on some of these threads tonight is simply appalling.

I'm truly sorry your parents didn't teach you better than this.

my mother did a fine job raising me .. but I'm almost 25 I can make my own decisions and it has nothing to do with the way she raised me. But you can't sit here and tell me that my "justifications" are wrong .. if a married man chooses to cheat on his wife is that not his choice (wrong or not)?

[princessx069]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Oh, that's rich - bring God into this mess.

Twisted thinking, very twisted thinking.

well what kind of answer were you expecting? Any unplanned pregnancy is just that .. unplanned whether it be with a married man, your boyfriend, or your own husband. It's unplanned and since I am not planning to get pregnant by a married man then I'll deal with it if/when it happens.

[Prince_Frog]

Originally Posted by princessx069

I'm responsible enough to know how to protect myself. but if God grants me a child then He grants me a child .. I love children but that's not what I'm planning on. If it happens then so be it, it happens I'll deal with it then.

Have fun being part of the destruction of a marriage. It doesn't matter whether he's flirting wth you or not, you know he's married and you're still going to bang the guy, and this makes you as much the problem as he is. You can't see it, and that's truly sad.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Oh, that's rich - bring God into this mess.

Twisted thinking, very twisted thinking.

God has been brought into plenty of threads he doesn't belong to. As a matter of fact, he doesn't belong on this forum at all.

[princessx069]

Originally Posted by Prince_Frog

Have fun being part of the destruction of a marriage. It doesn't matter whether he's flirting wth you or not, you know he's married and you're still going to bang the guy, and this makes you as much the problem as he is. You can't see it, and that's truly sad.

You mean to tell me you've never done anything wrong in your life?

[*Sixy*]

Originally Posted by princessx069

well what kind of answer were you expecting? Any unplanned pregnancy is just that .. unplanned whether it be with a married man, your boyfriend, or your own husband. It's unplanned and since I am not planning to get pregnant by a married man then I'll deal with it if/when it happens.

Is this your answer for STD's too?

If he's that forward with you, he's probably done this before. Condoms are great but they don't protect against everything.

[princessx069]

and if his wife doesn't know .. then how is that destructing a marriage.. that might not even be a good marriage. In any case it might make their marriage better because if this man is happy at least a few days out of the week then an intolerable marriage wouldn't be so bad.