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First i wanna say i love her to the bottom of my heart but sometimes i hate her so much it's unbelievable.
Well the thing is, me and my girlfriend are together for about 2 months now, and well yeah she is kinda my first TRUE love (I've had lots of girlfriends before but i never felt like this). I love her and i don't wanna lose her, but her actions make me crazy and make me wanna break up.. She always tries to make me jealous (She always tells me how guy are hitting on her and s*** and i know she likes it cause i think she needs all of the attention), i don't know why since i give enough compliments but sometimes i think my attention isn't enough for her. Everyday she tells me she loves me and never wanna lose me but i can't live with nor without her. I HATE how she always looks for attention, I HATE how she talks about other guys, I HATE how she's pissed when other girls talk to me, I HATE how manipulative she is, I HATE the fact she is a shopping maniac who always asks me for money (I don't have much but she get's everything she wants since i'm crazy about her). Yet, I LOVE HER!
I don't know what i should do since i really don't wanna lose her but staying with her might affect my personality. The thought of her going to another guy makes me crazy, i know she wouldn't go to another guy immediatly but in time she will. (I hate the thought of her having sex with someone else)
I'm asking you for help because i'm not the type of guy who would talk with other people about this, I don't show it neither i'm just dying inside. Help would be appreciated! Thanks
Some people fill their lives with drama and make the people that care about them crazy. I used to call them crazy-makers back when I was still dating. You need to leave her if you hate the drama, because it will likely get worse over time. How do you feel about what is happening to your thought process right now? The longer you stay the harder it will be to leave.
I'm sorry, i did not try to act childish.. I'm just saying, it could be infatuation but when she's not with me i miss her. The thing is i think she has a split personality, at one moment she asks me to kiss her and hug her and just touch her and at some moments when i try to kiss her she just pulls away. That's what driving me nuts. I know i might sound crazy and all, i don't mind people making fun of me.. Ur right, i probably do not know true love but i just meant that i'm really in love with this girl. Like i said before, i never been in love.. This is all new to me and i'm really sorry if i said it wrong. I just need(ed) help cause i was/am going crazy..
I'm sorry, i did not try to act childish.. I'm just saying, it could be infatuation but when she's not with me i miss her. The thing is i think she has a split personality, at one moment she asks me to kiss her and hug her and just touch her and at some moments when i try to kiss her she just pulls away. That's what driving me nuts. I know i might sound crazy and all, i don't mind people making fun of me.. Ur right, i probably do not know true love but i just meant that i'm really in love with this girl. Like i said before, i never been in love.. This is all new to me and i'm really sorry if i said it wrong. I just need(ed) help cause i was/am going crazy..
End it. It's only been two months and you use the word "hate" more than love, her behavior is not healthy, and you are not behaving healthy.
I'm sorry, i did not try to act childish.. I'm just saying, it could be infatuation but when she's not with me i miss her. The thing is i think she has a split personality, at one moment she asks me to kiss her and hug her and just touch her and at some moments when i try to kiss her she just pulls away. That's what driving me nuts. I know i might sound crazy and all, i don't mind people making fun of me.. Ur right, i probably do not know true love but i just meant that i'm really in love with this girl. Like i said before, i never been in love.. This is all new to me and i'm really sorry if i said it wrong. I just need(ed) help cause i was/am going crazy..
Why settle for this? Get a hobby, a prostitute, whatever. Anything to keep from getting any more attached to this nutty girl.
I play football (soccer) and i work, i don't go out often because of my football.. And i've been thinking (also looking up some other sites), could it be that i'm so attached to this girl because i'm scared of not finding someone else and not wanting to be alone? I'm not really confident neither?
I play football (soccer) and i work, i don't go out often because of my football.. And i've been thinking (also looking up some other sites), could it be that i'm so attached to this girl because i'm scared of not finding someone else and not wanting to be alone?
All you have to know is that the relationship is not healthy. Figure out why you were willing to put up with this after you break-up.
All you have to know is that the relationship is not healthy. Figure out why you were willing to put up with this after you break-up.
I know it's unhealthy that's why i really want to break-up but yeah.. ur probably experienced in these kind of things so i should listen to what you say cause in the back of my mind i know your right but it seems i don't want to accept the truth..
She sounds very immature and controlling. Is that the type of woman you want?
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