Should i breakup? Please, i need advice!

[cwamjn]

[quote=KendrickL;23296191]I don't want her to be with someone else.. And i'm scared i won't find another (I'm not bad looking but not good looking either) and since i don't go out so much i'm maybe a bit scared of not finding other people.[/]

Is she hot? And how old are you?

[Sweetlilac]

Oh yeah, and your money.

Stop giving her any money, and see if she sticks around. If she doesn't, then you get your answer. It is MUCH better to be alone than being with someone whom you hate and who toys with your feelings.

[lovesthebass]

Originally Posted by KendrickL

I don't want her to be with someone else.. And i'm scared i won't find another (I'm not bad looking but not good looking either) and since i don't go out so much i'm maybe a bit scared of not finding other people.

Don't have a serious relationship just for the sake of having one or fear of being alone. Have it with someone you enjoy being with, not someone where you can go online and post multiple reasons why you hate them.

[KendrickL]

Originally Posted by Sweetlilac

One thing I would admit though: You have a great attitude. I haven't seen many cases where the OP actually LISTENS to the advice and admits that he's wrong and his willingness to change. I think you will be okay in the long run. But yeah, this girlfriend is no good for you. She is seeking fun, affection, and thrills (and DRAMA!). You are seeking love. See the problem?

Thanks, I'm looking for help so i need to take people's advice!

Btw, i just came back to say i broke up with her this morning (In person).. I told her how i felt and what i thought and she exploded in tears because she thought nothing was wrong. Now she asks me for a second chance because she wants to change and doesn't want to lose me. Man, i feel bad now!

Originally Posted by cwamjn

Is she hot? And how old are you?

Yes she is hot, she has a beautiful body And i am 20 years old

[Sam I Am]

Originally Posted by KendrickL

her actions make me crazy and make me wanna break up.. She always tries to make me jealous (She always tells me how guy are hitting on her and s*** and i know she likes it cause i think she needs all of the attention), i don't know why since i give enough compliments but sometimes i think my attention isn't enough for her.

I HATE how she always looks for attention, I HATE how she talks about other guys, I HATE how she's pissed when other girls talk to me, I HATE how manipulative she is, I HATE the fact she is a shopping maniac who always asks me for money (I don't have much but she get's everything she wants since i'm crazy about her).

Did you tell her these things? Spell it out for her?

It's possible she's just immature and thinks all this stuff is how she is SUPPOSED to behave, but it's not really her. And if you haven't told her before that these things bugged you, then she probably DID think everything was fine and you were okay with her very childish behavior.

What explanation did you give for breaking up with her - more importantly, how do you feel tonight? Okay, so you're probably a little lonely and second-guessing yourself - but do you feel even the tiniest bit relieved?

Either she was playing juvenile games or she's just toxic - either way, I think you may be better off without her - but you DO owe her the courtesy of a short explanation - if for no other reason than maybe she'll pull her act together and not do all this crazy-making on the next guy she tries to manipulate.

[stan4]

2 months? True love with a game-playing mind-f***?

Is the op 14?