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Old 03-30-2012, 05:47 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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for women, being easily able to get a boyfriend, date, relationship, not only because they don't have to initiate anything, but because men don't expect that much from women when it comes to attraction
Only if the woman is attractive, and only if she does not care about the quality of men dates.

 
Old 03-30-2012, 05:59 PM
 
Location: Santa Ana
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Only if the woman is attractive, and only if she does not care about the quality of men dates.
When men care about the quality of women they date, it is generally, usually their looks, physical appearence, but when women care about the quality of men, it is always non-physical attributes, confidence, attitude, character, power, social-status, social-skills, conversation-skills, is fun, interesting, etc. What I don't like is that the standards, traits, that make men successful with women also make him successful in life too, it makes him an overall better person, but women can be a loser and still attract men as long as they are hot, cute, pretty.
 
Old 03-30-2012, 08:36 PM
 
Location: Western Washington
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When men care about the quality of women they date, it is generally, usually their looks, physical appearence, but when women care about the quality of men, it is always non-physical attributes, confidence, attitude, character, power, social-status, social-skills, conversation-skills, is fun, interesting, etc. What I don't like is that the standards, traits, that make men successful with women also make him successful in life too, it makes him an overall better person, but women can be a loser and still attract men as long as they are hot, cute, pretty.
Oh brother...gag...another one of THESE threads. It's amazing all the crap that crawls out of the woodwork when threads like these turn up.

Yeah, any woman, especially if she's attractive, can get any men. Why SURE they can, if all they want from the guy is a f*ck! This is such an overplayed, predictable thread. Good grief dear mod...close it now... puhlease!!
 
Old 03-31-2012, 09:19 AM
 
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When men care about the quality of women they date, it is generally, usually their looks, physical appearence, but when women care about the quality of men, it is always non-physical attributes, confidence, attitude, character, power, social-status, social-skills, conversation-skills, is fun, interesting, etc. What I don't like is that the standards, traits, that make men successful with women also make him successful in life too, it makes him an overall better person, but women can be a loser and still attract men as long as they are hot, cute, pretty.

Oh man! That is so untrue.

I can give you play by play from my life where women have thrown themselves at hot guys that were slackers, potheads, obnoxious sexists, and quiet introverts with no personality.

Being a good looking man trumps being a good looking woman for sure.
 
Old 03-31-2012, 09:36 AM
 
Location: Earth
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Never think about being a guy but sometimes I feel more like a guy. Especially while I'm lifting heavier weighs than some of them in the gym.
 
Old 03-31-2012, 09:56 AM
 
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When men care about the quality of women they date, it is generally, usually their looks, physical appearence, but when women care about the quality of men, it is always non-physical attributes, confidence, attitude, character, power, social-status, social-skills, conversation-skills, is fun, interesting, etc. What I don't like is that the standards, traits, that make men successful with women also make him successful in life too, it makes him an overall better person, but women can be a loser and still attract men as long as they are hot, cute, pretty.
I don't think you give men enough credit. They are all not simpletons as you assert. There are men with depth and intelligence that require the same from their partners. No doubt these are foreign concepts to folk like you, but don't be so ridiculous as to assume all humans are carbon copies of you.
 
Old 03-31-2012, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Western Washington
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I don't think you give men enough credit. They are all not simpletons as you assert. There are men with depth and intelligence that require the same from their partners. No doubt these are foreign concepts to folk like you, but don't be so ridiculous as to assume all humans are carbon copies of you.
 
Old 03-31-2012, 10:56 AM
 
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for women, being easily able to get a boyfriend, date, relationship, not only because they don't have to initiate anything, but because men don't expect that much from women when it comes to attraction
Really?? I would argue that if she is very good looking that might be the case but this is not true across the board.
 
Old 03-31-2012, 03:33 PM
 
Location: Santa Ana
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Oh man! That is so untrue.

I can give you play by play from my life where women have thrown themselves at hot guys that were slackers, potheads, obnoxious sexists, and quiet introverts with no personality.

Being a good looking man trumps being a good looking woman for sure.
still, even if a man looks like Brad Pitt, David Beckham, Tom Brady, Channing Tatum, Cristiano Ronaldo, or a GQ Model, but if he has no life, no confidence, no "game", introverts, loners, they will struggle, that is what it seems like
 
Old 03-31-2012, 07:16 PM
 
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I am glad I am a woman. I like my privates because they stay put (unless I am running around).
I know, right. Now, if only you could get the "twins" to settle down.

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