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Old 03-26-2012, 08:51 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Not necessarily whether you'd want to, since most people seem happy with their birth sex/the sex they've grown up with.

Like do you ever try to see things from your SO's point of view? Or just what it would be like to be a man/woman in general?

Do you imagine how your life would've been different if you were a man/woman? How it might change your personality, if at all.etc.

I sometimes do, not a great deal, but I do imagine what it'd like if I was born female (or black, or a bald eagle, for that matter, haha). I think I'd be similar, obviously with some female traits that I don't have, but innately I'd be the same person I am now.

 
Old 03-26-2012, 08:52 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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Fairly often. I try to see things from other people's point of view in general. It gives you perspective.
 
Old 03-26-2012, 08:53 PM
 
Location: USA
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Too funny. I tell my friends in my next life I'm coming back as a man. I think you guys have it much easier and I envy you that.
 
Old 03-26-2012, 08:54 PM
 
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Hardly ever
 
Old 03-26-2012, 08:55 PM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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Too funny. I tell my friends in my next life I'm coming back as a man. I think you guys have it much easier and I envy you that.
I absolutely agree that we have it easier! I'm grateful for that! Just this morning I was thinking, thank god I don't have to shave my legs all of the time To be fair though, we don't look nearly as good as ya'll
 
Old 03-26-2012, 08:55 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Too funny. I tell my friends in my next life I'm coming back as a man. I think you guys have it much easier and I envy you that.

My sammich still isn't done.
 
Old 03-26-2012, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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Not necessarily whether you'd want to, since most people seem happy with their birth sex/the sex they've grown up with.

Like do you ever try to see things from your SO's point of view? Or just what it would be like to be a man/woman in general?

Do you imagine how your life would've been different if you were a man/woman? How it might change your personality, if at all.etc.

I sometimes do, not a great deal, but I do imagine what it'd like if I was born female (or black, or a bald eagle, for that matter, haha). I think I'd be similar, obviously with some female traits that I don't have, but innately I'd be the same person I am now.
Yes, definitely! Maybe it's just thinkers like us that ponder "counterfactual worlds".

I remember in primary school there was an assignment once for like really young kids about something like that -- imagine you were a different person etc. You could be a boy or a girl or someone born in San Francisco or Venice or Timbuktu etc. I think ability to imagine yourself as the "other" is a key part of being human and also having basic empathy etc.

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Old 03-26-2012, 09:04 PM
 
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While I do try to understand other's perspectives, I cannot think of one time when I have tried to think about what it would be like to be a man. From what I can see, it would probably be pretty gross.
 
Old 03-26-2012, 09:12 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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While I do try to understand other's perspectives, I cannot think of one time when I have tried to think about what it would be like to be a man. From what I can see, it would probably be pretty gross.
Why gross? I imagine having periods would be gross to...

But I think it'd be better if more people tried to imagine what it'd be like. Of course you can never know, but trying to understanding will help.
 
Old 03-26-2012, 09:14 PM
 
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Yes. sometimes I wonder how they are able to walk around with all their 'equipment' squeezed into a tiny space and moving about constantly.
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