Why do women over-complicate sex? (husband, advice, issues, romance)
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Let's be real, if your a girl, even average or just above average.
You can pretty much have sex anytime you want, so alot of girls take the power they have for granted.
The classic party scene comes to mind of the ugly girl crawling all over the disgusted male who stares at his friends for rescue to avoid a scene.
I have seen that quite a few times in person. The girl looks stupid as **** being blitzed out of her mind and not "getting" he doesn't want to hit that.
Its not going anywhere. But these are males that usually have no problem getting dates or girlfriends.
I am telling you guys what you have mentioned you don't like about men. You can live with your parents as a woman, not have a car, not have a job, etc. but have it the other way around and no way. So yes, women are pickier. Even women have admitted here that men are easier to please.
Those things you listed are all things I have for myself, so I don't find "please have a job and your own transportation" to be in the same league as "must look like johnny depp and live in a McMansion"
So what that some women admitted it here, I'm not them. I didn't say that b/c I don't beleive it. If you look at some of the things they nitpick over in these threads they are just as picky if not more then women.
*there could be a reason why he lives at home, maybe he's taking care of elderly parents.
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
Women don't talk about it much. But I know a lot of women (and a few men, too) who have gone a decade or more without sex. They just don't meet the right guy, and they don't go to bars, they don't drink.
Men turn women down all the time, even for conversation. Women are also a lot less likely to have sex with strangers, though a few do. Some guys can walk into a bar and ask women for sex, and score. Someone posted about that on another thread. Some guys don't really even need to make any effort at all, the women come to them.
I agree with this. I know a man who's been with a lot of women and he says it seems like we're not picky but I've probably turned down nearly as many as I've been with. Not all of us sleep with just anyone.
And I went ten years celibate because I wasn't looking for a man, didn't want to date, turned down dates and would rather have waited til the right one came into my life. I was just focused on my career and personal life at the time There are a lot of us like that. You probably won't find us at bars or anywhere out trying to pick up men.
I agree with this. I know a man who's been with a lot of women and he says it seems like we're not picky but I've probably turned down nearly as many as I've been with. Not all of us sleep with just anyone.
And I went ten years celibate because I wasn't looking for a man, didn't want to date, turned down dates and would rather have waited til the right one came into my life. I was just focused on my career and personal life at the time There are a lot of us like that. You probably won't find us at bars or anywhere out trying to pick up men.
So you weren't trying to find a man, But if you wanted to, you probably easily could've got a man to have sex with you anytime you wanted... Right?
I came up with the bar example to show you how women generally speaking can have sex in a snap. You, as a woman, don’t need to put any kind of effort, work, romance, or money to convince a guy to have sex with you. As for my example, change it to whatever setting you want: a bar, a party, a disco, a park, etc. same thing. A woman is more likely to get a “yes†than a slap on her face.
How many women do you hear complaining because they won’t get sex with their husband, boyfriend, etc. vs how many men cannot get permission from their wife to have sex? See what I mean? Married men complaining about a sexless life is quite common, not the other way around.
Pretty much. Girl would have to be terrifying ugly to not get sex when she wants.
Those things you listed are all things I have for myself, so I don't find "please have a job and your own transportation" to be in the same league as "must look like johnny depp and live in a McMansion"
You say you have those things, good for you, but even you didn't, you wouldn't have a problem getting sex. A man has a harder challenge simply getting a date if he is a guy without a car, without a job, without his own place, etc. Women can't deny that. Saying non of that matter is like men saying that a girl being fat, ugly, celibate, and past her prime, doens't matter either.
You say you have those things, good for you, but even you didn't, you wouldn't have a problem getting sex. A man has a harder challenge simply getting a date if he is a guy without a car, without a job, without his own place, etc. Women can't deny that. Saying non of that matter is like men saying that a girl being fat, ugly, celibate, and past her prime, doens't matter either.
I guess they want women to 'boo hoo' for them because they can't pick up women and screw them at will.
Imagine the world if they could. Scary sh*t.
Who said that? We're just acknowledging facts here.
That it's easy for girls to have sex with different partners.
And that goes back to the general point of why women who are sluts are looked down upon.
Because its easy
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