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Old 07-19-2012, 02:12 PM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Oh yes it is. And it's the most difficult competition ever. Getting a job, getting into shape, learning something new... all much easier by far.
Yup.
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Old 07-19-2012, 02:59 PM
 
Location: usa
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i work in the financial services industry, but that's not the first time I've been mistaken for a techie lol
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Old 07-19-2012, 04:30 PM
 
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Are you a guy?
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I'm taking a break from the dating scene....
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..... and trying to polish myself
I assure you this will happen on your break
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Old 07-19-2012, 04:45 PM
 
Location: usa
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^^^^^^
its been established that I'm a girl lol
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Old 07-19-2012, 05:10 PM
 
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^^^^^^
its been established that I'm a girl lol
my post still holds similar measures. I didn't read any replies... even skimmed the OP quickly
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Old 07-19-2012, 07:29 PM
 
Location: In an indoor space
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^^^^^^
its been established that I'm a girl lol
No you're an attractive young lady!

Give it time and all will take care of itself.

Great things happen when we least expect it.

And lol it's infectious in a great way.

I've lost count on how many people I got to know by just being outgoing, confident and a smile with just starting with small talk.

Go with feeling you have nothing to lose and mostly to gain IMHO.
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Old 07-19-2012, 09:59 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I've lost count on how many people I got to know by just being outgoing, confident and a smile with just starting with small talk.
This is the ticket, for both men and women. Men (and some women) worry and complain so much about rejection, but if you make it a habit to just be outgoing and friendly with the people who cross your path everyday, it's not really a big, stinging rejection if someone doesn't respond. It's just part of you being you, and bringing a little cheer into others' lives and yours. It's just "neighborliness".
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Old 07-20-2012, 12:46 AM
 
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stop placing expectations on yourself and situations and just go out to have fun and enjoy life for what it is. no need to focus on silly things like a check list of do do and needs.
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Old 07-20-2012, 06:27 AM
 
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I'll practice attempting to be outgoing, but thats not really me....I feel like I'll be fake
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Old 07-20-2012, 06:52 AM
 
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I'll practice attempting to be outgoing, but thats not really me....I feel like I'll be fake
Do you mean you never talk to anyone?

One needs to get out there as nobody is just going to ring ones doorbell to say "telepathically I found you" or something like that. lol!

You need not be fake, just talk to people that's all.

Or do like another thread currently active: Add this to your ways of meeting people
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