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Average looks for a guy, by definition is the level of physical attractivness somewhere int eh middle of its spectrum. In other words, the most average looking guy would have as many better looking guys then him as those who are worse looking than him. Of course attractivness is partialy subjective but everyone can tell a difference between a very handsome guy and a donkey. Women need to work on grasping of what is average when it comes to mans looks, because they have lost touch with it a long time ago.
Yes, it's so hard for men. I feel so bad for them. They have so much pressure to have a good body. I know my husband cries in his pillow every night because he feels that my body is innately sexier than his.
I once read a forum where bodybuilders were complaining that they do all that work yet they always see girls with "scrawny" guys.
Some Body builders are difficult to have a relationship with! Having been a gf of one for almost 7 years I'd rather have a relationship with a scrawny man than a BB
Yet I cannot help myself if I am confronted with a vision of well developed, "toned", biceps. Not real large though, just perfect like Dwight Howard's or David Beckman's or that actor...um, what's his name, Mark Wahlberg, sorry I had to look it up.
Also a nice abdomen but not the six pack, personally I like a little bit of softness there with a trail of hair from the chest to the belly button and beyond- in otherwords my favorite outfit for a man is shirtless wearing only jeans. I'm a leg girl too. That said though, I don't need to be with someone built like that but it is a sight for sore eyes to me and I will oogle a bit, and sometimes drool if my husband is not in the room.
And men who have made their bodies too, grossly, large from body building just don't cut it for me. Not interested at all.
Love the total contradiction. (Laugh), "nope not for me at all, yet I'll drool like a water fountain when I see them"..Too funny!
I'll give it another try. Women are just like men, they like good looking people. They have eyes too. So, if given a good looking guy to an average guy with everything else equal, the girl will most likely go for the good looking guy. If anyone says otherwise, they'd have to have a real good reason. For example, perhaps they've always dated "hot" guys, yet always end up hurt, so now out of spite, they won't date someone that is considered "hot" for fear of the same. Possibly angry at good looking people as well.
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Yes, it's so hard for men. I feel so bad for them. They have so much pressure to have a good body. I know my husband cries in his pillow every night because he feels that my body is innately sexier than his.
I think men are innately attracted to women...even most gay men, I think have some attraction to women. I think, just about everybody is attracted to women in some form or fashion, because we are all females before development occurs and I think this predisposes us to all to have an attraction to females, women included. However I dont think women are truly attracted to everyday men at all. I think they are attracted to what their idea of A man represents: which is security, power, reassurance, an alternative to fragility, the unthinking etc. - things she may choose to be at times, but doesnt really have to be, in the eyes of society.
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