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Truthfully I don't care what the person looks like or their sexual oreintation, but I tell them I'm not interested and they persist......Now we have a probelm
The persistance of someone that you don't want to be bothered with in the first place should really be the topic of this conversation.
I guess some of you understand how a good looking women feels like when being persued by some really annoying person.
Actually, I can't say that I do
But I know how I feel.
Yeah, when you decline and they persist, that is a problem. It shows that they do not respect you in all actuality.
Haven't we heard a million times about women complaining "how the best looking single men are always gay"
I've heard time and time again, women who think a man is so hot, and then they get dissappointed that he turned out to be gay.
Women typically don't make the first move, even in todays day in age of equality. They don't make their attraction known at ALL. So yeah, it may be a bit of an indicator, that if you are just good looking and stylish enough, that you sometimes get mistaken for being gay, then that logically means, that theres going to be a good number of women out there that are probably finding you attractive right now.
And while there are differences certainly, there is SOME overlap between what women find attractive, and what gay guys find attractive. So, while I wouldn't be flattered per se about a gay guy hitting on me, I would find it as an indicator, that I'm probably a good looking guy to women.
Again, there are differences of course, as many women also like guys who are a bit more rough around the edges.
Hi there, I'm a 26 year old Latino guy from New York City and I'm constantly getting hit on by gay men> This happens mostly on public transportation (subways and buses) and its getting annoying, not to mention I get offended by it because I'm totally straight and I have no interest in men at all. Any advice on what to do to prevent this? Or maybe its something on the way I dress that's giving off a false vibe to those people? I really don't know why this keeps happening to me but its getting annoying and one of these days I'm gonna end up cursing one of those guys out in front of everyone. That's how annoying this is starting to become.
Oh and please if ya gonna comment this, don't give me no stupid/dumb or irrelevant comments, if you're the one to comment BS I would prefer you keep your comments to yourself. Thanks
You might think of it as nuisance now. But consider if you were unattractive and no gay men OR straight women ever hit on you. Would you prefer THAT?
In Nyc,you don't EVER look at anyone for anything.
I notice people from other parts of the country are saying take it as a compliment or they probably aren't thinking about you,they just happened to look in your direction.
Butits pretty rude to look at anyone in Nyc.
Ha, actually, NYC is the only place on earth I've ever had a complete stranger come up to me and literally scream into my face. I assure you this random person was looking at me while doing it. My experience is that, yes, people in NYC do, in fact, look at other people, among other things.
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