What can I do to stop gay men from hitting me on all the time? (attracted, older)

[nycruben87]

Hi there, I'm a 26 year old Latino guy from New York City and I'm constantly getting hit on by gay men> This happens mostly on public transportation (subways and buses) and its getting annoying, not to mention I get offended by it because I'm totally straight and I have no interest in men at all. Any advice on what to do to prevent this? Or maybe its something on the way I dress that's giving off a false vibe to those people? I really don't know why this keeps happening to me but its getting annoying and one of these days I'm gonna end up cursing one of those guys out in front of everyone. That's how annoying this is starting to become.

Oh and please if ya gonna comment this, don't give me no stupid/dumb or irrelevant comments, if you're the one to comment BS I would prefer you keep your comments to yourself. Thanks

[nycruben87]

By the way, I wasn't sure in what category to post this thread. So I just post it here on the relationships one

[bobman]

You should be flattered.

just wait a few years till you're older, and nature and gravity have worked their magic.

Then you'll soon wish you were being hit on again............................

[Raena77]

Stop shaving your legs.

[BrianH]

Why would you be offended they hit on you ? What sets their gaydar off, do you look/act feminine or have a jersry shore sense of style?

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[easternerDC]

What exactly are they doing? Do you strike up conversations with them? Do they just come up to you and complement you? Ask you out?

[nycruben87]

Lol, they don't come up to me with converstions. They just stare at me with that kind of "I'm interested in you" kind of stare

[TJenkins602]

Originally Posted by bobman

You should be flattered.

just wait a few years till you're older, and nature and gravity have worked their magic.

Then you'll soon wish you were being hit on again............................

I don't know if I'd want to be hit on by people of the same sex as me.

[TJenkins602]

Originally Posted by nycruben87

Lol, they don't come up to me with converstions. They just stare at me with that kind of "I'm interested in you" kind of stare

Ignore it. Don't even look in their direction if that is all they do, problem solved.

[Camlon]

Originally Posted by nycruben87

Hi there, I'm a 26 year old Latino guy from New York City and I'm constantly getting hit on by gay men> This happens mostly on public transportation (subways and buses) and its getting annoying, not to mention I get offended by it because I'm totally straight and I have no interest in men at all. Any advice on what to do to prevent this? Or maybe its something on the way I dress that's giving off a false vibe to those people? I really don't know why this keeps happening to me but its getting annoying and one of these days I'm gonna end up cursing one of those guys out in front of everyone. That's how annoying this is starting to become.

Oh and please if ya gonna comment this, don't give me no stupid/dumb or irrelevant comments, if you're the one to comment BS I would prefer you keep your comments to yourself. Thanks

Maybe you dress to well. Most men in New York don't dress very well, especially among hispanics. Gays are attracted to well dressed men.

Also I guess the gay percentage in New York is higher, so that's something New Yorkers have to expect.