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Old 05-14-2013, 01:40 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You have to worry when they want to play...."Does this make you uncomfortable?" Game.
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Old 05-14-2013, 01:51 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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You do the same thing you would do if a woman you're not attracted to hits on you. If the guy doesn't say anything, you just ignore him. If he politely speaks to you, you politely decline. It's not a terrible thing to be found attractive, even if you're not interested.
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Old 05-14-2013, 02:05 PM
 
Location: Philippines
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Lol, they don't come up to me with converstions. They just stare at me with that kind of "I'm interested in you" kind of stare
Maybe just stop staring back at them? Could be they are just staring in your general direction. I personally don't really consider someone looking at you to be hitting on you. If they come up and ask for your phone number or ask you out, than sure, but otherwise forget about it.

This reminds me of when I was in college and my boyfriends roommate thought girls were interested in him and staring at him. In reality there was nothing of the sort going on.

How do you know they are gay anyway.
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Old 05-14-2013, 04:55 PM
 
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Haha this is really funny when you think of the reaction a woman gets if she DARES complain about cold approaches around here.

Doesn't really feel that good to be hit on by every random with eyes, a hard on and a fancy pick up line, does it?

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Old 05-14-2013, 05:09 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Haha this is really funny when you think of the reaction a woman gets if she DARES complain about cold approaches around here.

Doesn't really feel that good to be hit on by every random with eyes, a hard on and a fancy pick up line, does it?

This was my first thought

Regardless, I do get hit on by lesbians quite often when I'm up in the bay area, and did have a lovely woman ask me out when I was in NYC last time. I just laugh and tell them I'm not into the ladies and I've never had a negative response thus far. In fact, I usually invite them out with us or vice versa. Sometimes I wish I were a lesbian...life would be easier.
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Old 05-14-2013, 05:11 PM
 
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This was my first thought

Regardless, I do get hit on by lesbians quite often when I'm up in the bay area, and did have a lovely woman ask me out when I was in NYC last time. I just laugh and tell them I'm not into the ladies and I've never had a negative response thus far. In fact, I usually invite them out with us or vice versa. Sometimes I wish I were a lesbian...life would be easier.
I'm going to a lesbian couple's anniversary party in the weekend, 40 years together...and no, it doesn't look any easier to me...
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Old 05-14-2013, 05:16 PM
 
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You need to lose the assless chaps.
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Old 05-14-2013, 05:17 PM
 
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I'm going to a lesbian couple's anniversary party in the weekend, 40 years together...and no, it doesn't look any easier to me...
I meant easier dating-wise. I'd probably have far more options
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Old 05-14-2013, 05:19 PM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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Just say, "No thanks, Buddy. I don't swing that way."
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Old 05-15-2013, 02:57 PM
 
Location: Durham, NC
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Just tell them "Sorry, I already have a boyfriend".
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