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Hi there, I'm a 26 year old Latino guy from New York City and I'm constantly getting hit on by gay men> This happens mostly on public transportation (subways and buses) and its getting annoying, not to mention I get offended by it because I'm totally straight and I have no interest in men at all. Any advice on what to do to prevent this? Or maybe its something on the way I dress that's giving off a false vibe to those people? I really don't know why this keeps happening to me but its getting annoying and one of these days I'm gonna end up cursing one of those guys out in front of everyone. That's how annoying this is starting to become.
Oh and please if ya gonna comment this, don't give me no stupid/dumb or irrelevant comments, if you're the one to comment BS I would prefer you keep your comments to yourself. Thanks
If you're getting a lot of answers you don't like, it is because the nature of your problem is so odd. I mean, who gets hit on by gay men all the time? Not once in a blue moon, not once every so often, but all the time. It is just so strange. If you really are getting hit on gay men all the the time, I have to believe that, in some way you are unaware of, you are giving off the impression that you're gay. Ask a gay man you trust about this. I bet they will point out stuff you didn't even know you were doing.
If you're getting a lot of answers you don't like, it is because the nature of your problem is so odd. I mean, who gets hit on by gay men all the time? Not once in a blue moon, not once every so often, but all the time. It is just so strange. If you really are getting hit on gay men all the the time, I have to believe that, in some way you are unaware of, you are giving off the impression that you're gay. Ask a gay man you trust about this. I bet they will point out stuff you didn't even know you were doing.
He's reeeeeeaaalllly going to have a defensive reaction to this, but somebody had to point out the obvious. Well done.
This one time I went to visit Berlin and I was riding on the subway. It wasn't crowded, but most of the seats were taken, so I stood by the wall at one end of the subway car. Then, I noticed someone who was seated looking up toward my direction. I'm good at ignoring this because I got used to this in Asia, but I didn't know any reason why I'd stand out in Germany. Then, I noticed someone else looking my way. Then, another. I thought, this is weird. I tried to ignore it for a while, then I decided to stare back at one or two of them... not in a threatening way, just like I was casually looking in their direction in a relaxed way. This had no effect. It went on like this, on and off, for several minutes. Then, I got off the subway and noticed that I had been standing right under a video screen.
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