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Right, I'm going to break up with my girlfriend for she can be happy with someone else lol. You think i'm bad now, if that ever happens, forget about it...
But you ARE planning to break up with her...when she goes away to school. And not contact her. And certainly you expect her to date other people.
Jonathan, PLEASE don't listen to anyone on this thread who have no experience or understanding of your circumstances.
I can address with authority because I have lived it.
I met my future husband when we were both 15. Started dating at 16. Thirty years later we are still together. We were both virgins when we met and neither of us have ever had sex with anyone else.
We still love each other and have never been separated one single night in the 22 years of our marriage. Don't EVER let other people tell you, "play the field!" They are bitter, delusional or envious. You don't need to play the field if you sufficiently love your partner.
Jonathan, PLEASE don't listen to anyone on this thread who have no experience or understanding of your circumstances.
I can address with authority because I have lived it.
I met my future husband when we were both 15. Started dating at 16. Thirty years later we are still together. We were both virgins when we met and neither of us have ever had sex with anyone else.
We still love each other and have never been separated one single night in the 22 years of our marriage. Don't EVER let other people tell you, "play the field!" They are bitter, delusional or envious. You don't need to play the field if you sufficiently love your partner.
If she's the one, then she is. You'll know it.
Did you read the thread? Your advice is going to fall on deaf ears.
Even in a loving relationship both partners should stay vigilant of one another; otherwise, you're gonna pay for it. That applies to dating, relationships, and marriage, keep on eye on your spouse.
ROTFL!
Troll.
And beyond pathetic.
No way is this guy ever had a relationship, much less a first love monogamous relationship. This is troll personification.
People in love and committed are never "vigilant" of one another. They don't need to be and the thought doesn't even occur to them.
If y'all feel like you need to be with other people and don't want to marry each other, then you two aren't really in love. I'm sorry to tell you this but it's the truth.
OP? Get help. At the very least, let that poor girl go so she can find a stable relationship.
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