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thats a two way street sophie..... if a bull has the prettiest cow in the pasture,,,all the other bulls are going to try mounting her when he's not around...(don't you love farm analogies)
Lol awwww I couldn't give you a rep. I'm pretty sure I saw tread marks over her head. ZOOOOoooooom!
Its because very few women actually do this. When the rubber meets the road a hot woman wants a hot guy.
I think this is true. People of similar looks will be attracted to each other. Those that say they date "below their looks" may be thinking too highly of themselves.
I think this is true. People of similar looks will be attracted to each other. Those that say they date "below their looks" may be thinking too highly of themselves.
I did that for 4 years, I wish I could have thoes 4 years back and would have made different choices especially with the couple of women that were interested in me back then but I thought I could get someone hotter. When I look back there is no way I could have known I would have had so little opprotuinty in the future.
I did that for 4 years, I wish I could have thoes 4 years back and would have made different choices especially with the couple of women that were interested in me back then but I thought I could get someone hotter. When I look back there is no way I could have known I would have had so little opprotuinty in the future.
Dude, what happened? Are you disfigured? Why are you so down on yourself and what do you think is causing your current hot girl cold streak?
While I prefer to be the "pretty one" in the relationship - I've dated guys that were very attractive. It's not that I wouldn't date a guy who I thought was more attractive than I am - but I do prefer to be the pretty one. And, yes, I can be insecure about my looks sometimes, and yes, I know that I will be called vain. That's fine. Like I said - I'd prefer to be the pretty one but it's not like I've ever not dated someone because of this.
Dude, what happened? Are you disfigured? Why are you so down on yourself and what do you think is causing your current hot girl cold streak?
Its not a cold streak, the hottest girl I have been with is a 6 in my entire life. To collect data I posted multipule pics on hot or not and I came up a 5.5 in my early 20's and I am now at a 5 so it actually makes sense. Had I had this knowlage when I was 18 I would have never turned down that girl that was really into me at the church camp and she would have had sex with me, we could have got married and lived happily ever after and she was about a 5.
Its a real diservice when friends and family are telling you you are the greatest thing since sliced bread when its not really true.
Alot of women intentionally "date down" because of insecurity and that the less attractive guy is much more safe then a more good looking dude. It's that simple
The guy who is less attractive is more likely to put her on a pedastal, do whatever she says, and far less likely to cheat. The good looking guy has WAAAAY more options, much more women going after him, and is more likely to stray and flat out get up and leave
^^ I'm going with this too. It makes far more sense than the logic of; "When I’m walking down the street with my significant other, I sort of want the eyes to be on me".
My boyfriend of 7 years was a gorgeous model type and everyone drooled as he passed by. I have to admit sometimes the obvious different bother me, but thats for my self-esteem issues.
If the guy is TOO gorgeous (like in my case) and you are jealous or insecure, it can be very difficult.
Two things annoyed me about dating a model: First, everyone assumed he was gay. Nothing wrong with being gay, but don't assume I'm an agent/make-up girl/beard. Second, he had an obnoxious habit of using the last of my styling products without telling me, and when I would go to use them, the tube/canister would let out a "pfft" and a couple of dribbles of gel/spray/mousse etc. Yeah, I know. First-World problem, but it got on my nerves. I'm so glad that in the years since then, the beauty industry has since developed products specifically for men, because my current SO uses hair products, face wash, etc.
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