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Tell me OP, would she treat you like this if you had lots of money or very good looks? If the answer is know then you have your answer.
The problem with this logic is that the vast majority of people have neither lots of money nor very good looks, and yet they still manage to meet people, have sex, and/or get into relationships.
There will be no doubt or misunderstandings or need to post on CD, with a woman who really likes you!!!
You've heard of "womanly wiles" right? Even the dumbest girl has them, and uses them, when she sees a man she likes.
End of.
I'm a woman & I disagree. I am very shy, so my "flirting" probably looks like regular friendliness unless someone has a broad context of my typical behavior to reference. I'm poor at sending signals & often simply do not. I don't have "womanly wiles" apparently....
Not all women have open, warm demeanors & are mistaken for flirting when not.
I'm a woman & I disagree. I am very shy, so my "flirting" probably looks like regular friendliness unless someone has a broad context of my typical behavior to reference. I'm poor at sending signals & often simply do not. I don't have "womanly wiles" apparently....
Not all women have open, warm demeanors & are mistaken for flirting when not.
Oh come on.
You know how to flutter your eyelashes, just like the rest of us.
You may not experience as many chances as an outgoing girl, but you know you can do it when the time's right.
Speak to a tall sexy fireman one day and watch them babies go.
I really don't think there was anything wrong with the text at all. It probably the single most unthreatening mode of communication there is besides email. Who knows what's going through her head right now? And yes, the text maybe never made it to her - it happens.
If I were you, I'd ignore her. Don't even look at her when she walks by. If she still tries to be friendly after that, then maybe you have another chance. If not, then drop it.
My cell number is available to all other employees at my company, but I'd be freaked out if someone used the internal directory to look up my number for the sake of sending what was intended as a very mildly flirtatious text message.
EXACTLY!
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Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life
Texting her when she had not given you her number, however innocently you intended, skips a step.
Yep. I don't understand why guys have such a hard time getting this. It's creepy.
Yep. I don't understand why guys have such a hard time getting this. It's creepy.
i thought women liked the bold confident fellows,,,,that found a way to express his desires to you,,,isnt that what the woman say on here-man up and take some action..-if he likes you enough, he'll find a way..
i thought women liked the bold confident fellows,,,,that found a way to express his desires to you,,,isnt that what the woman say on here-man up and take some action..-if he likes you enough, he'll find a way..
BS. Bottom line, if she wanted things to go further, she would have been delighted to get the text.
And why would a woman want things to go further with a man who lacks the ingenuity and common sense to use a more appropriate form of communication than abusing access to company-provided cell phones to make a social contact with her? He couldn't have accidentally run into her in the breakroom or at an office party or company picnic and struck up a conversation like a grown-up?
Being dim enough to crap where one eats, aside, I mean.
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. I read it, and I agree with him.
