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The sex part and the relationship part are two different things. Some guys have experience in one but not the other.
If a guy is my age, mid 40s, and has never had a long term relationship (like, 10 years or so), that is a huge red flag. He won't have needed interpersonal skills. And there is probably some reason no woman stayed with him, something he is hiding.
With lack of sexual experience, there is the danger that he will think porn is real. Or that all women like what his one ex liked.
But for a woman who does not have a lot of experience,a guy who also doesn't is perfect. Two people in their teens or early 20s for example.
Yes, absolutely. The only men I have known in that situation (no physical contact with the opposite or same sex) by their mid-20s or later have autism, cognitive impairment or some kind of life-crippling mental illness.
You wouldn't want a carpenter, a doctor, or an auto mechanic with no experience. Why would you want a boyfriend or girlfriend with no experience?
I'll tell you what. When I took apart my first lawnmower engine I had no idea what I was doing. I put it back together and it shot flames out of the exhaust, it blew the muffler off, and still cut the grass. It was a sight to behold, and a lot of fun watching those flames blasting out the exhaust.
It didn't last long before it quit working, but it got the job done.
You wouldn't want a carpenter, a doctor, or an auto mechanic with no experience. Why would you want a boyfriend or girlfriend with no experience?
Yeah but if he or she is too experienced they are ho's. I guess if you're ok with being the 556th person of 2013 on the cesspool that is that persons privates go for it.
Yes, absolutely. The only men I have known in that situation (no physical contact with the opposite or same sex) by their mid-20s or later have autism, cognitive impairment or some kind of life-crippling mental illness.
I guess I should visit a psychiatrist. I should also tell the other 10 or so kissless virgins I know that they need to visit a shrink.
I mean, seriously? I know a lot of regular guys in their mid-20's who just aren't into pursuing women and never were.
It doesn't matter. A woman will only know you have no experience if you tell her.
Bwahahahaha!
Luckily, you contradict yourself in the very next sentence:
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So find a girl you can practice with.. get the experience.. then move on.
Relationship experience is more important than sexual experience, though. If you don't love the 'practice' girl and want to marry her, then it's no good. Plus it makes you a cad.
Yes, absolutely. The only men I have known in that situation (no physical contact with the opposite or same sex) by their mid-20s or later have autism, cognitive impairment or some kind of life-crippling mental illness.
As much as I hate to say this but it is a factual statement for many men including me.
I guess I should visit a psychiatrist. I should also tell the other 10 or so kissless virgins I know that they need to visit a shrink.
I mean, seriously? I know a lot of regular guys in their mid-20's who just aren't into pursuing women and never were.
But that's not what you are referring to. Men who are uninterested in women because they are asexual, gay or dealing with a low sex drive are not in the same category.
You WANT a woman. So why have you been unable to achieve even the most benign physical encounter with one? I am willing to bet that you have at least one, perhaps even two, of the impairments I listed.
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