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Old 11-09-2013, 04:37 PM
 
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This post worries me for several reasons

IMO if you dranks so much that you could not go home, you have an alcohol problem

Also, this man is milking the cow for free instead of trying to control your life, tell him untill he marries you he should shut up. Its just a boyfriend not a husband so you owe him nothing.
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Old 11-09-2013, 04:44 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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This post worries me for several reasons

IMO if you dranks so much that you could not go home, you have an alcohol problem

Also, this man is milking the cow for free instead of trying to control your life, tell him untill he marries you he should shut up. Its just a boyfriend not a husband so you owe him nothing.
LOL I definitely don't have an alcohol problem. I don't even drink that much. And I felt more tired than anything.
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Old 11-09-2013, 04:46 PM
 
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This post worries me for several reasons

IMO if you dranks so much that you could not go home, you have an alcohol problem

Also, this man is milking the cow for free instead of trying to control your life, tell him untill he marries you he should shut up. Its just a boyfriend not a husband so you owe him nothing.
Not really....that's .08 in this state.
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Old 11-09-2013, 04:46 PM
 
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Has he ever 'gone ballistic' over anything before?
Did you see this question? I think it's important. Also, has he ever before thought that his judgement was better than yours, or his way of doing things?
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Old 11-09-2013, 04:48 PM
 
Location: SW Missouri
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So me and my boyfriend just had a huge argument about this and I'm interested in hearing people's viewpoints. Last night, I went out with a girlfriend for dinner and drinks. At around midnight, we went back to her place and I felt pretty tired from drinking and just decided to crash at her place. I live in Chicago and her place is like a 40 minute train ride from my apartment.

When I called my boyfriend (who I live with) last night to tell him I was staying over, he went ballistic. He said he didn't like it at all didn't think it was right for a grown woman to spend the night at a friend's house. He even told me he'd pay for my cab if I just came home. After arguing for a few minutes, I told him I was staying and that I would be home in the morning.

Is it me or is he overreacting? I just find this so weird. He also didn't like the fact that I've only known this girl for a couple months and that he's only met her once.
Why do you stay with a person who you can't get along with? He's a BOYFRIEND not a husband. His vote doesn't count.

Tell him if he wants to complain about how you live your life...he can put a ring on your finger. Until that happens. He can just stuff it.

20yrsinBranson
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Old 11-09-2013, 04:49 PM
 
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LOL I definitely don't have an alcohol problem. I don't even drink that much. And I felt more tired than anything.
He needs to lighten up. You can stay with any "gina" you want.....NO sausages!!

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Old 11-09-2013, 04:59 PM
 
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He needs to lighten up. You can stay with any "gina" you want.....NO sausages!!

Is that because you are envisioning girls in there underwear having a pillow fight?
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Old 11-09-2013, 05:04 PM
 
Location: Florida
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I took vacations with my girlfriends and my husband went on fishing trips with his male friends...it all boils down to trust, your BF is obviously very insecure and immature.
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Old 11-09-2013, 07:36 PM
 
Location: San Leandro
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Drunk chick staying out with the girls = red flag.
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Old 11-09-2013, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I'm married, almost 50 and still have sleep overs at GFs houses. Either because we planned that, or it's late and I've over imbibed.

I can't imagine a BF telling me I couldn't do that. He wouldn't last long that's for sure.
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