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My mother is the exact opposite, she tells me to never settle. But my mother also believes in man should like you more than you like him. I think that's a little true. There's something about a female chasing after a man that's truly pathetic. Since we're told it's easier for us to get laid, I guess it's natural for people to think we shouldn't try so hard chasing after ONE man.
I hear it's easier for women to get laid. But given myself, I find that to not be true. lol
But really many I know find chasing in general to be pathetic because it's wasting time on someone not reciprocating.
So, I wouldn't chase a guy. But one would have to chase me. I I am attracted, I would go out with him. I always hear "play hard to get." But that only works for the drop-dead sexy women that have tons of guys after them. I can't afford to run a good guy off.
So chasing just seems like games the really hot people play, players, vixens, etc. People not really looking for anything serious, just fun and games.
But I don't measure though. I just want a guy to like me the same way I like him. For once.
I think a cute guy liked me once. But I was young and stupid and did the play hard to get thing, which chased him away. Though I believe he knew I liked him. But got over me fast, or just didn't care. Because he got another girlfriend later, and it was not me. lol She's around a few months to a year older.
I think it would be easy for me to get laid. But that's not essential for me. Sex isn't admiration or love for me. It's just mindless humping in the middle of the night (or during the day) anyone can get screwed. I don't want to just get screwed, I want to be desired and lusted after, and payed attention to.
I actually hate the whole "chase" thing. I like you, you like me, why are we chasing each other like dogs? Date me and buy me some roses, and diddle me in the cinema. Scrap all this "chasing" and playing hard to get, and whatever games and "tests" people do in the dating world.
And that last thing you said, EXACTLY happened to me. You are my clone.
My younger self always saw my present self in dozens of relationships, and having guys flock to me, and none of that ever happened.
A bit self-centered, are we? I am kind of being over-dramatic, but as a guy, my only hope was to have a mutual interest type of relationship, I certainly don't expect (or even want) women to be 'flocking' to me. Also, dozens of relationships imply a player kind of mentality, which many of the men I think you would want would think of as a repellent.
I think it would be easy for me to get laid. But that's not essential for me. Sex isn't admiration or love for me. It's just mindless humping in the middle of the night (or during the day) anyone can get screwed. I don't want to just get screwed, I want to be desired and lusted after, and payed attention to.
I actually hate the whole "chase" thing. I like you, you like me, why are we chasing each other like dogs? Date me and buy me some roses, and diddle me in the cinema. Scrap all this "chasing" and playing hard to get, and whatever games and "tests" people do in the dating world.
And that last thing you said, EXACTLY happened to me. You are my clone.
Yeah. Sex isn't my concern. I do think sex is emotional, with the right person. Sex doesn't always mean love. And it's sad many women don't know that.
But it's better when there's already love and respect. Afterward, the guy still likes you, respects you, and doesn't want you to get lost afterward. That, to me, would make the experience even better.
So, sex adds to a relationship. But it's not my main concern as all the other stuff first. Attraction, and building respect and trust. All that comes first.
But sadly, nowadays society is really oversexed. I hear many say they have to sleep with someone 1st to see if they fit sexually before dating. So, a test drive to see if you please me enough to tolerate you.
But I am not a girl for casual sex, and hooking up randomly. Just never was my thing. I want a relationship first, sex later.
I don't feel old, but I know this is the youngest I am ever going to be. It petrifies me that I'll be 30 in just 10 years. Where will I be by then? Will I be just as lonely. The future is never planned.
You are right, it seems like all is hopeless because you don't have anyone in your life that cares enough about you to accidentally knock you up.
You aren't even 20 yet, please finish your education, become successful and then just let nature take its course. Why are you stressing that much about a man at 20?
Well, judging by your threads - you are a loose cannon and an attention seeker. You might want to get that under control before you start trying to have any meaningful relationships.
I actually hate the whole "chase" thing. I like you, you like me, why are we chasing each other like dogs? Date me and buy me some roses, and diddle me in the cinema.
I think it would be easy for me to get laid. But that's not essential for me. Sex isn't admiration or love for me. It's just mindless humping in the middle of the night (or during the day) anyone can get screwed. I don't want to just get screwed, I want to be desired and lusted after, and payed attention to.
I actually hate the whole "chase" thing. I like you, you like me, why are we chasing each other like dogs? Date me and buy me some roses, and diddle me in the cinema. Scrap all this "chasing" and playing hard to get, and whatever games and "tests" people do in the dating world.
And that last thing you said, EXACTLY happened to me. You are my clone.
You have a great future in pole dancing.
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