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Hey diddle diddle, the cat and the fiddle,
the cow jumped over the moon.
The little dog laughed to see such sport
and the clock ran away with the spoon.
Deep down all I've ever wanted was for someone to like me back, and receive love and affection from people other than my family. I don't know why I'm so aloof and difficult. I very much want to be likeable, and I'm trying to be more outgoing. Maybe it stems from childhood "bullying", but I just don't think anyone is willing to give me a chance. In high school, being single wasn't the worst thing, but now it's starting to dwell on me. I know I'm still young, but I won't be young forever.
I put a lot of time and effort into making myself "better". Whatever flaw I have/had, I do everything I possibly can to diminish it. My mother tells me I worry about things that no one cares about. But if I care about it, then someone somewhere does too! I feel truly alone, and that no one likes me anymore. I feel like a child star that aged out of their cuteness.
I was born an only child, and some of my closest relatives already have little families of their own. This almost kills me, because it brings me back into the realization that we're no longer the children we used to be. Everyone is socially growing, and becoming more mature than I am in a different sense. They know what it feels like to be desired and what it's like to have a guy genuinely like you, and I don't.
I'm not saying men aren't attracted to me, at least not the normal ones.
Nagging comes from either sex in the relationships I've witnessed.
Go out some, observe every couple you come across, and after a little time, you'll realize what a crock of s___ the love scam really is.
In the end, you'll stand alone and learn to laugh at the hidden misery that all the supposedly happy couples are holding back.
I don't want a "little" family, but it pains me to know that no one even liked me enough to try to knock me up. I feel almost undesirable and unwanted.
That statement right there^^? That makes you undesirable and unwanted. As long as you come off as desperate, insecure, and self-pitying, people are going to steer clear of you. You are just 19 for God's sake. No one needs to be worried about getting boinked by 19, or 22 for that matter. What you need to be worried about is your own happiness and self-image. You will never EVER have love from someone else, until you love your own self.
It's not all I worry about. I have other things I do. But nothing is wrong with self-improvement.
I agree. But really, a 31" is nothing to be seriously worrying about. I guarantee that THAT would not be the "thing" that is keeping you single, hon.
Last edited by ChessieMom; 06-15-2014 at 08:21 AM..
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