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Yeah that was just a bit disturbing. I don't WISH for anyone to ever hit me. It has happened but hell I'd never wish for it. Have to wonder about some folks
I kicked a guy in the shin and shoved him on his ass. He deserved it. He full on grabbed my boobs with both hands. He's lucky that's all he got...I took pity on him because he was shyt-faced so I walked away when he was down.
No, no woman has ever tried to hit me. I'm pretty sure I'd just take the hit then cuss her out, but it might depend on what she hits me with, who knows?
This was waaaayyyyy back in college at the only Frat party I ever went to. I saw enough to know it was not the scene for me. Bunch of sloppy drunks swapping spit and trying to hook up...ewww!
But yeah, he was an idiot. I didn't know I'd need a sign that said "look, don't touch!" lol
This was waaaayyyyy back in college at the only Frat party I ever went to. I saw enough to know it was not the scene for me. Bunch of sloppy drunks swapping spit and trying to hook up...ewww!
But yeah, he was an idiot. I didn't know I'd need a sign that said "look, don't touch!" lol
When I was 18, I was dating a 19 year old guy who was thankfully a gentleman. He upset me and I started to slap him. He reached up and grabbed my wrist and "encouraged" me to sit down. He got very serious and lectured me about NEVER trying to hit a guy: They are innately stronger, have a little less impulse control up till about age 26 or older, and could reallyreally hurt me. He was so serious about it that it seared the lesson into my brain. I am eternally grateful to him for that lesson, and for caring enough about me that he didn't hit back. He was a big guy and could have done some damage.
No matter what people want to preach about "social justice" or "women and men are equal"... there are some undeniable facts that the average woman, no matter how much she works out, is just not as powerful physically as the average guy. Not only that, most males wrestle and punch and play rough with each other as they are growing up. A lot of women don't have a reality check on what all that feels like. Too many TV and movie scenes show dramatic slaps or what have you by women. Bad role modeling for women to see that. We need to learn how to handle our upsets with a little more class and common sense. Nobody wins when things start to get physical. Somebody's got to be the grownup. Walk away and deal with it when you're both calmer.
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And ...guys... Look, I know ol' horndoggie in your brain encourages you otherwise. But listen to Cowgirl... drunk chicks are recipes for disaster. RUN! One wrong move, one idiotic situation like beaste describes above, and your life is ruined FOREVER. If she had pressed charges, video or not, with your martial arts training you could be looking at time in prison. I kid you not. No amount of the sweet stuff is worth the rest of your life ruined by a prison record or a sex offender charge. If she's drunk and wants sex, excuse yourself and leave. Don't console her. Don't say anything stupid. Just leave. If she's at your house, sigh, then tell her she has to sleep on the couch and lock your door. Better yet, call one of her friends to come and get her. Be all gentlemanly and tell the friend, "I think she really needs to go and sleep this off and I don't want her to hurt herself. Can you please come get her?" Do NOT drive her home. Do NOT pass Go. The possibilities for disaster increase exponentially as time passes.
OK, I feel better now.
My sister was going through some issues in her marriage, which eventually led to divorce. There was an incident where she had to call the cops on her ex. They brought her to our home and she started telling us (my husband and I) how it played out. Turned out she had started hitting her ex and threw a brush at him. (My sister likes drama. ) Like your gentleman friend, my husband sat her down and explained pretty much the same thing to her. He was afraid she was going to get hurt because of that "instinctual switch" in a guy's brain. Knowing my sister, it probably went in one ear and out the other.
This was waaaayyyyy back in college at the only Frat party I ever went to. I saw enough to know it was not the scene for me. Bunch of sloppy drunks swapping spit and trying to hook up...ewww!
But yeah, he was an idiot. I didn't know I'd need a sign that said "look, don't touch!" lol
LOL, I was in a frat and I sometimes was the one taking cash from people coming into the kegger parties we threw.......... LOL.....
This same question is asked every week on this forum.
What is the point?
The thought of beating on a woman is probably like porn to some of these woman haters.
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